Why do psychics..........

[CelestialHorse]

Give different answers to same question? I have been going to a lot lately the last couple years but I think I really need and want to back off. Anyway I always ask this particular question about a man I have eyes on. Some psychics say no, I won't be with him, but some say yes I will.

I dunno, it's SOOO confusing and probably is adding to my stress but why do some psychics see things differently? It would be nicer if all said no or all said yes. What are your experiences with psychics? My pendulums seem to say yes, sometimes my cards say no, and other times yes. I DO want this man yes, but I just worry if my desires are just being told but then again the psychics I got say no they are telling me what they really see and stuff.

I HATE BEING CONFUSED! ;;

 

[GryffinSong]

Some will say its because the future still isn't set. That your actions can change the outcome.

Me? I don't believe in psychics.

Either way, the thing to do is decide if YOU want to be with this man. If the answer is yes, then do things to attract him. You are ultimately in charge of your future.

 

[Eco74]

Question;
Do you want to be with this man or do you just want to find out if you're fated to be with him whether you want to be or not?
And also to the point - does this man want to be with you?

In my experience with relationships it's not so much a matter of whether you are together or not, but what you make of it. If you both want it and are willing to compromise your personal dreams and needs to make it work and find happiness in that - great. If not, it's not going to work out and the 'fated relationship' might not end up being more than a learning experience.

I'd recommend learning more about him, maybe even exposing yourself a little more to him so he gets a chance to get to know you.
Then, let the certainty come out the natural way - meaning, one day you'll simply find that you've made up your mind, or that he's made up your mind for you should he choose to back out for whatever reason he may have.

I totally sympathise with not liking the confusion.
It will pass though, but only if you put your mind to it and head towards making a decision.

Maybe you could ask a "what if" to see the possible outcomes.
What if you do, and what if you don't? Might help you choose which way to go, because after all you do have control of the decisions you make for yourself.

 

[danieljuk]

If you ask a question on here about Tarot, everyone will have a different interpretation. It's amazing how often threads are split between the answer. It's up to the sitter to decide which fits them the best.

Everyone has a different interpretation about the message they are getting!

If you go down the psychic route, ask about things coming up that you can get a definite answer on. If they are right on things in the immediate future, perhaps there is more chance of other questions being right. It's much harder to predict if a man will get in a relationship with you because that involves two peoples free will!

Finally becareful about asking too much, each reader will give you a different possible outcome. It will get confusing. If a psychic seems to be right on other things, make their reading definitive! Otherwise you could be torturing your emotions indefinitely

 

[Milfoil]

Have any of the psychic's given you any firm, absolutely accurate information that could not have been known to them? Not just fluffy comments which are open-ended and which anyone could find a link to. For example, can any of your psychics give you a description of something which happened in your past which only you know about, highly specific, what people were wearing, the name of a person, what they did and why this was important to you? Or are you just getting open-ended statements such as a person with a name beginning with P or that they see an animal, a pet which was close to you and you were so sad when they died. The latter could apply to pretty much anyone.

If they cannot give you specifics then take no heed of the reading and don't waste your time and money.

A BIG part of life is that each of us has to make decisions and live despite not knowing what is going to happen. Tarot, divination and psychics are useful sometimes for occasionally seeing a situation in a wider way but each one of us has to live our lives by our own decisions, not by asking someone or something else to tell us how every other day.

Like asking the same question over and over again in tarot reading, you will confuse the matter rather than define it. If it is psychics you prefer, find one that really can offer specific information which nobody else could possibly know, go to them no more than twice a year and then make your own decisions no matter what you are told or shown.

 

[tarotbear]

My intuition says not to believe everything a psychic says.

 

[GryffinSong]

I look at it this way. Do you want to give over your power to a stranger (the psychic)? Or do you want to take the reins of your own life into your own hands. Asking whether something will happen is a passive activity. Making steps toward the future you want is an active activity. Get clear on the future you want, move towards the future you want, and you have a better chance at getting the future you want. And if it doesn't happen exactly the way you wish, at least you've had your own adventure, rather than someone elses.

 

[Milfoil]

I look at it this way. Do you want to give over your power to a stranger (the psychic)? Or do you want to take the reins of your own life into your own hands. Asking whether something will happen is a passive activity. Making steps toward the future you want is an active activity. Get clear on the future you want, move towards the future you want, and you have a better chance at getting the future you want. And if it doesn't happen exactly the way you wish, at least you've had your own adventure, rather than someone elses.

That's a lovely way of putting it and well put too.

 

[gregory]

My intuition says not to believe everything a psychic says.

Mine says that psychics aren't psychic.

But more to the point - why ask the same question over and over. ? seems a bit of a waste of money to me. Which begs the question - do you want someone else to make decisions for you ? Tell you what is going to happen so you don't have to bother doing anything ? If so - best to get any answer and run with that - or you are going to have to - DECIDE between the answers you get !

If you want a life, though, you have to do as everyone in this thread has said - decide what you want and work towards it. You may or may not get it. We don't all get what we want in life. But if you don't aim for it - you can be sure you won't get it...
It's like the lottery - you gotta be in it to win it.

 

[Glass Owl]

The reason why all of these sources are giving you different answer to your yes/no answer of whether or not you will be with someone is because the future is fluid and subject to change. The energy surrounding a situation can change at any time. After all, some events that happen in our lives are the result of a domino effect and some things are outside of control, no matter what we do. When it comes to something 50/50, a coin toss is about as accurate.

So a psychic says you are going to end up with this guy, what does this really mean? How does him/her telling you this affect your choices and actions? Does this give you a free pass to do nothing and let the guy come to you? Does this give you a free pass to run up to him and tell him that you are meant to be together? What if by doing those things as the result of "yes" answers by a series of psychics, you actually pushed him away and you don't end up together - now would that make the psychics wrong?

Same goes for the psychics who says "Nope, I don't see you ending up with this guy." Does this mean that you should give up on the guy? Should you let a "no" reading discourage you so much that you don't go to that party that were just invited to? What if it turns out he was there and was asking about you and the two of you missed a crucial opportunity to interact?

Regardless of how many sources are consulted, I don't see how answers like these are really providing you with anything useful, if anything they are only muddling up the waters.

Bottom line - asking a number of psychics whether you are going to end up with this guy doesn't increase or decrease the odds of it happening nor does it reduce your anxiety. In fact, it sounds as though it only increases your anxiety about the future. And ultimately, no matter what the psychics say it is your life. And unfortunately, the reality is that you can't avoid making decisions, no matter how uncomfortable or fearful it is, and those choices will shape your life and impact the future.