9 of Pentacles. No, he'll be in a good mood so your life will be easier I think
Q: Do I want that type of person as a method of self harm?
4 of Cups. Yes you want a certain type of person who may be harmful to you, and you are stuck in a rut. You may think that you are unworthy of the type of person that you truly desire and would nourish you. Reach out. <3
Q: Should I invite my sister and her husband out to dinner?
A: The Magician. Yes but only if you feel like you can manage all the preparations by yourself.
Q: How can I not grovel under the feet/try to change myself for people I'm interested in?