BrightEye said:
I have asked friend of mine to read for me next week. I have two questions. They are yes/no questions, and I really should know better, but they are what I want to know:
Will I marry x? Will we have children together?
Maybe someone could help me rephrase them?
I tend to rephrase yes/no question as something like
"What can you tell BrightEye now aobut if she will marry X?"
OR What does BrightEye need to know about if she will marry X?"
Alternately, if it is something you truly hope will happen, you could ask
"What advice can you give BrightEye that will most help improve her chances of marrying X one day?"
or
"What steps can BrightEye take now that will most help improve her chances of marrying X one day?"
Then you need to take those steps if that is the future you want and it should really improve the chances of it happening. Of course the other person has their own free will too. But we can always improve our chances and remove anything we are doing that is turning the other off of the idea.
Same with the second question. for the first two...What can you tell BrightEye..., or what does BrightEye need to know about....
But when it comes to the children part I would certainly not go so far as to ask what steps you can take to have children with X if you get married. When that time comes, that is something you will have to decide together. But you can of course always ask if you are already heading in that direction now.
Babs