the question - again

[Alan Ross]

Alternately, if it is something you truly hope will happen, you could ask

"What advice can you give BrightEye that will most help improve her chances of marrying X one day?"

or

"What steps can BrightEye take now that will most help improve her chances of marrying X one day?"

Then you need to take those steps if that is the future you want and it should really improve the chances of it happening. Of course the other person has their own free will too. But we can always imrove our chances and remove anything we are doing that is turning the other off of the idea.

This is exactly the approach I prefer. This is tarot used to empower us to create our own destinies through wise choices and appropriate actions.

Alan

 

[BrightEye]

Thank you very much. I will be bearing all these things in mind.

 

[Aerin]

I like the 'what do I need to know about' sentence starter as well, as in "What do I need to know about my relationship with x?'.

Have you had a look at Joan Bunnings site (which I do like on asking questions) http://www.learntarot.com/less7.htm ? IMO it is worth a read (and not just for tarot either).