starlite
this past weekend i gave readings at a fair for the first time. i was a bit nervous, but overall things went well.
one particular client was skeptical immediately. she wouldn't give me an area of focus, i.e. career, love life, family, etc. nothing. instead, she said something to the effect of 'i have a few things i'm thinking about and i want to just pull cards to see what comes up' and she said it in a way of challenging my 'psychic powers' with a peculiar look. also, at one point, she criticized me because i wasn't doing a spread of several cards. since these were 15 min. readings whereby people usually have a few issues they would like insight on, i was reading a few cards per question. i explained that this is how i read. i'm not a big fan of the celtic cross. she was even a bit rude a couple of times.
now, i've been on the other side as a sitter and have been a bit skeptical of people that i didn't feel were that accurate, so i can understand the skepticism. however, without explaining details about what i'd like insight on, i've always given an area of focus. this woman was expecting me to be a mind reader. yes, i use my clairvoyance, clairsentience, clairaudience--or try to--but i'm not a fortune teller nor do i know every little thought in your head!
what i've also noticed is that most people were desperate for specific answers to their liking. one woman wanted to know 'how to get him back'. it was situation where she went on ONE date with the guy and he didn't call her. she recently had a major loss, so is obviously in need of feeling comforted from anybody. the cards came up with the message of needing to work on herself and be more confident--3 pent & q. wands. but, she really wasn't hearing it. and, she went to another in the room and was told the same thing.
it was just interesting to be on the other side of the fence.
how do you all handle sensitive situations?
one particular client was skeptical immediately. she wouldn't give me an area of focus, i.e. career, love life, family, etc. nothing. instead, she said something to the effect of 'i have a few things i'm thinking about and i want to just pull cards to see what comes up' and she said it in a way of challenging my 'psychic powers' with a peculiar look. also, at one point, she criticized me because i wasn't doing a spread of several cards. since these were 15 min. readings whereby people usually have a few issues they would like insight on, i was reading a few cards per question. i explained that this is how i read. i'm not a big fan of the celtic cross. she was even a bit rude a couple of times.
now, i've been on the other side as a sitter and have been a bit skeptical of people that i didn't feel were that accurate, so i can understand the skepticism. however, without explaining details about what i'd like insight on, i've always given an area of focus. this woman was expecting me to be a mind reader. yes, i use my clairvoyance, clairsentience, clairaudience--or try to--but i'm not a fortune teller nor do i know every little thought in your head!
what i've also noticed is that most people were desperate for specific answers to their liking. one woman wanted to know 'how to get him back'. it was situation where she went on ONE date with the guy and he didn't call her. she recently had a major loss, so is obviously in need of feeling comforted from anybody. the cards came up with the message of needing to work on herself and be more confident--3 pent & q. wands. but, she really wasn't hearing it. and, she went to another in the room and was told the same thing.
it was just interesting to be on the other side of the fence.
how do you all handle sensitive situations?