Sword King
So I've been doing readings on Keen for a little over a week. There are pros and cons of this particular outfit, but I've seen mostly pros so far. Although there are a large number of callers looking for "fortune telling readings" (as other Keen posts here on AT have noted), there are still a lot of Keen customers out there looking to work through blocks and difficulties, and I already feel like I've assisted a few of them.
Last night, however, I had a truly unsettling call. The sitter began simply enough by asking some questions about her past lives and the possibility of having met someone in her present incarnation who she had previously encountered in a past incarnation. The cards suggested that there was perhaps something there, and we talked a little bit about past lives versus memories from the collective unconscious.
Things started getting a bit more disconcerting as the sitter began asking who was responsible for the hellish existence she was living right now that involved controlling family members and uncaring parents. At this point, I explained that I did not have a lot of experience with past life regression, that is was a fairly complicated form of therapy, and that she should really contact someone with more expertise in that area. The sitter responded by asking "what the cards said" about several more questions. By the time she disconnected, I came away with the feeling that the sitter felt she was being dominated spiritually by others in this life, and that some person or entity is responsible for these manipulations.
I recognize that as readers, we're not supposed to judge the sitter, but this particular woman seemed to be exhibiting delusional tendencies to me - and I am not professionally capable of making such determinations. Dammit, Jim, I'm a Sword King - not a doctor. I tried explaining that tarot may not be the best method to for her concerns, but she was fixated on having me read this web of individuals - some of whom are strangers - who she felt somehow had the ability to control her. She seemed so paranoid about her family's abilities to control the minds of others that any suggestion that she seek other help only added to her sense of enclosing conspiracies all around her.
So...what is my responsbility now as a reader? I hung up feeling like I had received a very clear call for help, but that I didn't have anything in my toolbox to fix this person's very powerful feelings of helplessnes. I just studied Keen's policies and they really don't address any responsbility for Keen or the readers in any type of scenario.
Any general feedback, or feedback from similar experiences would be appreciated!
Last night, however, I had a truly unsettling call. The sitter began simply enough by asking some questions about her past lives and the possibility of having met someone in her present incarnation who she had previously encountered in a past incarnation. The cards suggested that there was perhaps something there, and we talked a little bit about past lives versus memories from the collective unconscious.
Things started getting a bit more disconcerting as the sitter began asking who was responsible for the hellish existence she was living right now that involved controlling family members and uncaring parents. At this point, I explained that I did not have a lot of experience with past life regression, that is was a fairly complicated form of therapy, and that she should really contact someone with more expertise in that area. The sitter responded by asking "what the cards said" about several more questions. By the time she disconnected, I came away with the feeling that the sitter felt she was being dominated spiritually by others in this life, and that some person or entity is responsible for these manipulations.
I recognize that as readers, we're not supposed to judge the sitter, but this particular woman seemed to be exhibiting delusional tendencies to me - and I am not professionally capable of making such determinations. Dammit, Jim, I'm a Sword King - not a doctor. I tried explaining that tarot may not be the best method to for her concerns, but she was fixated on having me read this web of individuals - some of whom are strangers - who she felt somehow had the ability to control her. She seemed so paranoid about her family's abilities to control the minds of others that any suggestion that she seek other help only added to her sense of enclosing conspiracies all around her.
So...what is my responsbility now as a reader? I hung up feeling like I had received a very clear call for help, but that I didn't have anything in my toolbox to fix this person's very powerful feelings of helplessnes. I just studied Keen's policies and they really don't address any responsbility for Keen or the readers in any type of scenario.
Any general feedback, or feedback from similar experiences would be appreciated!