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Shikamaru
30-11-2011, 09:20
I have a pretty good collection of stones. I want to make an arrangement that will help promote a repelling energy toward an unwanted house guest who has more than overstayed their welcome. This person has been staying with us for almost a year and a half, they do not contribute to the house, and in fact he leaves a mess for others to clean up. For someone who doesn't pay rent or contribute AT ALL that is really selfish. He is starting to drive me crazy and it's time for him to go. He was going to be booted out and I think he knew it so he magically got a job (That he only gets 10 hours a week from, so after taxes he makes less than a hundred.) And the most interesting thing is he is obsessed with the food network, and he buys REALLY EXPENSIVE food, cooks a giant meal using almost every dish, and then leaves a giant heap in the sink for others to clean (He figures if he made the meal he shouldn't clean up after himself.)

Complaining aside, I don't want a configuration of crystals that helps me cope or accept him or sympathize for him... I want something that will help promote the energy of "Get out of this house." I was thinking for some reason tiger-eyes and jaspers would help. I have a fairly large collection so if someone can throw out some suggestions of maybe what stones to use, and maybe a good construction design (I can almost picture it in my mind's eye, the stones I see point in all directions outward.)

cardlady22
30-11-2011, 09:42
Henry M. Mason says that crystals/gems with the orthorhombic structure act as Dispellers.
aragonite
peridot
topaz
andalusite/chiastolite (cross stone)

Shikamaru
30-11-2011, 09:55
I knew those little things would pay off one day (I choose my stones by feeling them out, and I got about 30-40 peridot shards, and I wonder if my yellow topaz would suit it well.) Alone with those components I could make a grid... any other suggestions?

cardlady22
30-11-2011, 10:19
What sort of symbolism says stop, do not enter, keep away (to you)?
a circle with an X in the center
an eye (watching)
a hand with the palm pointed out
a five-pointed star (where you lay the lines in the directions for banishing)

Hiding in Shadows
30-11-2011, 11:15
This kind of situation never seems to have a happy ending, so I feel for you. My idea is simple.... A Citrine point straight up in the cusion of his favorite chair (sorry). In Melodys book it mentions that Citrine will penetrate a problem and expedite solutions. I have not tried this, but perhaps you could program one with your intentions and include it in your design. I liked the banishing pentagram idea myself. Just tossing ideas out.

Bhavana
30-11-2011, 23:55
Please don't take this the wrong way, but maybe you and your other housemates should be looking at crystals that give you the strength to confront this freeloader and throw him out! I have had some experience with this, had a cousin who has spent his life living this way - even when he had money in the bank, he never offered any. At first I felt sorry for him, but after a while, it got pretty old, and I had to tell him to move on. (Funny thing is, he didn't hold it against me, we are still fairly close, like we have been since we were kids) But the point is, people like this have no pride, they just take advantage and burn bridges for as long as they can, then they move on and do it to someone else. Someone like this won't be affected by crystals....for example, he must be getting some negative vibes from all of you who live there, and that doesn't seem to bother him, does it?

Be merciless. Get together as a group and tell him he has till the end of the month.

Shikamaru
01-12-2011, 00:12
I already tried that. He is playing a sympathy card but i do tell them everyday we need to ask him to leave and they kind of did but now it is "lets let him stay through the holidays" mind you i just found out before this he has been freeloading off my aunt and uncle for a year so this is 2 and a half years he has been doing this... I am trying not to fuel getting rid of him with anger or rage because he is really beginning to bother me now (i think it is his energy). I just need to come up with something and i can take it from there. He doesnt fool me for a second; he is milking the situation and leeching off of other people. So far i am thinking a yellow topaz core, an X in a circle and three arrows going outward made from peridot. I just feel like there is something missing from it.

Fostha
01-12-2011, 07:24
Maybe a simple 'You got one week to get the f**k out of my space you f****n parasite' should get the ball rolling. Have you tried crystals for simply protecting yourself,as his energy is obviously affecting you too?

Wonderwoman
01-12-2011, 07:57
I'm with Fostha on this one, in addition I would also recommend Saging your place. Sage and Sage and Sage some more. It will cleanse your place from Leeching Parasites such as the one in your home and rid of its energy. walk around with the sage bundle and even sorround the sage around yourself clock-wise for protection.

214red
01-12-2011, 22:07
i have to agree with fortha and WW work on protecting yourself and cleansing, also giving yourself strength. also Obsidian as its a strong crystal and might simply make him uncomfortable. protection is a great idea too

pink daliha
02-12-2011, 15:44
Try burning some rosemary and sage or just adding to your grid (outlining, maybe?). Use with the windows open and don't forget to sweep towards the door. This is symbolic of sweeping out the negatives. So if you have some rosemary, it might help. It adds strength to workings and is also a great clearing herb.

Shikamaru
08-01-2012, 23:21
So update time:

He is still here and I feel like I am living in Bizarro world. Like everyone is wrapped around his little finger because he is guilting them into letting him stay so now everyone seems to be against me because I see through his manipulations. He has essentially forced his way into the household and taken a lot of power from the actual owners. I am now burning with hatred and disgust for this human being and I want him cast out NOW!...

But I believe in using negative energy constructively (I.E. if you are stressed out or depressed use that energy to better yourself like go to the gym or something.) so I want to take this hatred and direct it into positively getting this manipulative cancer out of my house.

Get this, now he is having his mail forwarded to the house... isn't that interesting. Also, he has left flammable things on the stovetop multiple times (And left the stove on!.) He's gotta go.

DownwardSpiral
09-01-2012, 02:39
"It will send any unwanted and negative energy back to the person who sent it. "

This quote was taken from Healing Crystals For You and it's in reference to Fire Agate. The website says this about Cracked Fire Agate...."It's ability to aid manifestation is strong, and particularly so if you wish to manifest anything of a more spiritual nature." I have never worked with fire agate but I'm interested in this stone.

Your guest is getting way too comfortable. You may need to step up your efforts to make him uncomfortable enough to leave.

Fostha
09-01-2012, 06:08
So update time:

He is still here and I feel like I am living in Bizarro world. Like everyone is wrapped around his little finger because he is guilting them into letting him stay so now everyone seems to be against me because I see through his manipulations. He has essentially forced his way into the household and taken a lot of power from the actual owners. I am now burning with hatred and disgust for this human being and I want him cast out NOW!...

But I believe in using negative energy constructively (I.E. if you are stressed out or depressed use that energy to better yourself like go to the gym or something.) so I want to take this hatred and direct it into positively getting this manipulative cancer out of my house.

Get this, now he is having his mail forwarded to the house... isn't that interesting. Also, he has left flammable things on the stovetop multiple times (And left the stove on!.) He's gotta go.

More importantly what are you doing to protect yourself in all this from his silly playground antics. He's going to make you ill if you're not careful. :(

magpie9
09-01-2012, 07:22
Many years ago I lived in a commune where people did very well at living together fairly and harmoniously, but now and then we got a bad egg.
We had this one guy who didn't feel that "wash dishes" included the pots and pans, so he would do a quick bad job on the dishes and go out for the eve leaving the dirty pots for the rest of us. We kept bringing it up to him at house meetings to no avail...and he was always doing what he wanted, and the hell with the rest of us.
Finally one night the mellowest woman in the house got really mad and carried all the dirty pots and pans up to his room and put them in his bed. He rolled in at 2 a.m. and had a big surprise to deal with.
After that he did the pots and pans, no problem. The rest of his behavior stayed awful, of course, but less awful.

You might feel a lot better if you start "consequencing" him. My heart goes out to you...it's so hard to live in that kind of situation.

Simone95
09-01-2012, 09:20
I understand your anger and frustration.
I think some stones that would be really helpful would be:
Black tourmaline - very very powerful
Malachite

and also I like the idea of maybe a fire opal to get things rattled in you to stand your ground!

Hope this helps some