Crystal17
i know from reading alot of older posts that different decks each have their special way of presenting information. for instance, one deck may be blunt and tell you some guy doesnt want you, whereas another deck may word it as, "he's just not interested in you, right now."
at least, thats what i gathered...or is that just personal reading styles: some readers see things more positively than others? im asking because ive done a few readings (on here) and twice i got an undesirable result... an outcome that the querant didnt want. however, instead of taking it as the cards telling them things wont work out, some of the people i read for chose to interpret the results as a guidiance card; the tarot telling them not to worry because things will work out. i hope this makes sense.
as a result, my confidence in the accurracy of my readings is really beginning to take a hit. im almost not wanting to read for others because im worried the cards will tell me things will end badly and ill look like i just want to see things negatively or something.
oh! and in cases like these, whose perception is more valid, me (the reader) or the person i am reading for?
ps. i hope it doesnt sound like im complaining because i love reading for others. its cool. i just dont want to spend the rest of my life looking at a negative outomce and thinking, "oh, things will work out. let me just tell her not to worry because in the future, if she thinks things arent working out, well its all just in her mind."
at least, thats what i gathered...or is that just personal reading styles: some readers see things more positively than others? im asking because ive done a few readings (on here) and twice i got an undesirable result... an outcome that the querant didnt want. however, instead of taking it as the cards telling them things wont work out, some of the people i read for chose to interpret the results as a guidiance card; the tarot telling them not to worry because things will work out. i hope this makes sense.
as a result, my confidence in the accurracy of my readings is really beginning to take a hit. im almost not wanting to read for others because im worried the cards will tell me things will end badly and ill look like i just want to see things negatively or something.
oh! and in cases like these, whose perception is more valid, me (the reader) or the person i am reading for?
ps. i hope it doesnt sound like im complaining because i love reading for others. its cool. i just dont want to spend the rest of my life looking at a negative outomce and thinking, "oh, things will work out. let me just tell her not to worry because in the future, if she thinks things arent working out, well its all just in her mind."