katarzyna
I wanted to re-open a discussion about The Lovers in relationship readings. I know the card is not only about romantic relationships, but very often about choices.
When I google, I tend to find a more traditional meaning for The Lovers when interpreted in a relationship reading, especially when in the outcome position (love, sensuality, a good sex life, closeness, a bond).
But when I've searched past discussions here, many of you seemed to think that The Lovers is ALWAYS about a choice needed to be made, and never depicts a happy or sensual relationship. Which strikes me as odd...I think it has to at least be considered as one of the meanings of the card.
Although I'm not well versed in tarot and tend to lay out spreads only occasionally, I remember a relationship a couple years ago when The Lovers kept coming up again and again when I asked what it is that's distancing my partner from me, and I interpreted as an affair -- and I was right. Obviously any single card can have many different readings in different situations, positions, etc.
But because there is so much literature about The Lovers depicting a happy relationship with a good sex life and a strong bond, and because visually the card seems to point to this as well, it has to be the case at least some of the time, depending on other cards and its position, as well as the individual's situation.
What's been your experience with The Lovers?
When I google, I tend to find a more traditional meaning for The Lovers when interpreted in a relationship reading, especially when in the outcome position (love, sensuality, a good sex life, closeness, a bond).
But when I've searched past discussions here, many of you seemed to think that The Lovers is ALWAYS about a choice needed to be made, and never depicts a happy or sensual relationship. Which strikes me as odd...I think it has to at least be considered as one of the meanings of the card.
Although I'm not well versed in tarot and tend to lay out spreads only occasionally, I remember a relationship a couple years ago when The Lovers kept coming up again and again when I asked what it is that's distancing my partner from me, and I interpreted as an affair -- and I was right. Obviously any single card can have many different readings in different situations, positions, etc.
But because there is so much literature about The Lovers depicting a happy relationship with a good sex life and a strong bond, and because visually the card seems to point to this as well, it has to be the case at least some of the time, depending on other cards and its position, as well as the individual's situation.
What's been your experience with The Lovers?