Silverbells
Hi All, I've taken a long sabbatical but hello again
So I've done my own spread for a potential relationship where the guy and myself appear to really, really like each other very much (in a life-changing, Holy Crap kind of way) but he's very busy and we haven't been able to get together for one reason or another. I wanted to see how things were from his POV.
7 card spread:
How he sees us (in terms of potential) - Page of Wands
How he feels about us (especially in the context of us not having been able to get together) - Ace of Pentacles
His emotions about us - Eight of Pentacles
What he wants to happen with us - Hanged Man
What he DOES NOT want to happen with us - Emperor
His intended actions regarding Us - Devil
Significator (overall energy/outlook/vibe kind of thing) - Strength
I think that the spread might be saying that he
- Page of Wands, Sees Us as a new exciting path;
- Ace of Pents, Feels the viability of the energy of a new opportunity still being present between us (rather than him having given up on the possibility)
- Eight of Pentacles, His emotions are invested and diligently/purposeful
...Here's where it gets more foggy for me:
- Hanged Man, Wants us to surrender to the experience OR wait until we can see each other (rather than give up on the possibilities of awesomeness between us) or both
- Emperor, DOES NOT want us to rest on the facts that we have been unable to see each other and to not accept that fact as material proof that we should just go our separate ways OR does not want to force the issue (this last possible interpretation being an odd one in the context of my interpretation of the other cards)
- Devil, plans to...allow a type of psychological bondage to take hold or remain (for both of us) to keep the possibilities alive OR keep me in his pocket until such a time as we can move forward together??? This is a stumping card in this position.
- Strength as overall vibe etc. - Controlling the situation between two disparate but extremely complimentary entities to make them work out together and offer the best that they can to each other???
I really like this guy and I think he likes me but I should think that two people could get together if they really wanted to...the circumstances are relatively extenuating, though not insurmountable at the moment (both parties are experiencing some pretty strong transitional life circumstances). So, Guys, what do you say? Comment on as many or as few cards as strike you, please Brutal Honesty is welcome.
So I've done my own spread for a potential relationship where the guy and myself appear to really, really like each other very much (in a life-changing, Holy Crap kind of way) but he's very busy and we haven't been able to get together for one reason or another. I wanted to see how things were from his POV.
7 card spread:
How he sees us (in terms of potential) - Page of Wands
How he feels about us (especially in the context of us not having been able to get together) - Ace of Pentacles
His emotions about us - Eight of Pentacles
What he wants to happen with us - Hanged Man
What he DOES NOT want to happen with us - Emperor
His intended actions regarding Us - Devil
Significator (overall energy/outlook/vibe kind of thing) - Strength
I think that the spread might be saying that he
- Page of Wands, Sees Us as a new exciting path;
- Ace of Pents, Feels the viability of the energy of a new opportunity still being present between us (rather than him having given up on the possibility)
- Eight of Pentacles, His emotions are invested and diligently/purposeful
...Here's where it gets more foggy for me:
- Hanged Man, Wants us to surrender to the experience OR wait until we can see each other (rather than give up on the possibilities of awesomeness between us) or both
- Emperor, DOES NOT want us to rest on the facts that we have been unable to see each other and to not accept that fact as material proof that we should just go our separate ways OR does not want to force the issue (this last possible interpretation being an odd one in the context of my interpretation of the other cards)
- Devil, plans to...allow a type of psychological bondage to take hold or remain (for both of us) to keep the possibilities alive OR keep me in his pocket until such a time as we can move forward together??? This is a stumping card in this position.
- Strength as overall vibe etc. - Controlling the situation between two disparate but extremely complimentary entities to make them work out together and offer the best that they can to each other???
I really like this guy and I think he likes me but I should think that two people could get together if they really wanted to...the circumstances are relatively extenuating, though not insurmountable at the moment (both parties are experiencing some pretty strong transitional life circumstances). So, Guys, what do you say? Comment on as many or as few cards as strike you, please Brutal Honesty is welcome.