I can be described as that queen...and have been...because I've kinda taught myself to block my emotions from decisions and I do things like describing what each number of a pain scale from Zero to 10 might be like...I actually just did that and someone said that would be a QS thing. Analytical and useful. I was also told I should type the whole thing out for the general public lol.
Detached yes. Seeming oblivious to the pain of others, also, yes. Actually oblivious - no, just want to see where you're at without me playing into your own assessment.