Need protection spell. Please Please.

Thread originally posted on the Aeclectic Tarot Forum on 13 Jun 2002, and now archived in the Forum Library.

carolliketarot	13 Jun 2002
Hi all, I am looking for a protection spell that protect me from any potential negative thoughts/actions of another person. A girl told me yesterday that I should be aware of the singing teacher. She said that she had met him one-to-one to ask him something about the course. He suddenly put his hand around her waist, when she told him that she was married, he said that it didn't matter. Well, I was shock when I heard the news. I don't know the girl or the teacher well. The teacher did not do anything strange, even we were alone in the classroom (maybe because he knew that my boyfriend would pick me up after class immediately), I just has the feeling that I cannot fully trust him. I will take singing lessons (one-to-one basis) with the teacher, so I will continue to see him. He is also the person giving me jobs on performance. I don't know what to believe, worry and just know that I should be careful. Just to add another layer of protection, I hope that there is a protection spell or amulet that can protect me from any negative thoughts or actions. Love and Light Carol

jade	14 Jun 2002
i would begin by wrapping yourself in a cacoon of whie light.....starting at your feet and up towards your head and then wrap back down again. keep wrapping until you feel safe and secure. :D it's simple but it works. love and light, jade ps i hope that your friend will report what he did. it was wrong!!!

Scorpion	14 Jun 2002
Hi Carol! I'm not up on spells I'm afraid, but I'm sure there'll be plenty of others who can provide those. I just wanted to say that he sounds like the sort of person who's into the "power" of his position and using it to abuse his pupil's trust. I think one of your best protections will be to send out the non-verbal message "try anything and you're dead meat"! After all, it is a form of bullying - essentially preying on people he perceives to be vulnerable - after all, you're dependent on his good opinion of your voice and possibly his contacts once trained. He's got you on the back foot. I hope he doesn't teach schoolgirls?! There are slime like this in all walks of life. If you don't feel confident enough to project the "don't even think about touching" image, it might be worth finding a teacher you're comfortable with. If you find he does put a hand on you, I suggest keeping your eyes blank (or angry), paste a tight smile on your face and snarl in good Red Sonja tradition "move it or lose it, buster". Whatever you do, don't let on that you're nervous or anxious or he'll dominate. The trick is , no matter what you're feeling inside, to keep the exterior calm and unruffled. If you're feeling really brave, you could turn it into a joke - but then you run the risk of him deliberately misunderstanding. Unfortunately in these circumstances a lot of people are frightened or embarrassed into putting up with unwanted attention and stay silent. He's a professional man and needs clients - if word gets around that he's molesting his pupils he could lose out. I don't want to give the impression that I fend off all men on the basis that they're up to no good - we have some very expressive bosses at my office and I have known them a long time and am confident enough with them to respond in kind because I know they have no ulterior intentions - in fact, it can be quite uplifting as it's very good natured. But if you don't want his intentions, your best bet really is to stop him before he starts. Hope this helps!

carolliketarot	14 Jun 2002
Thanks guys for your suggestions. LouiQ, I agree with every word you say. I remembered that he mentioned that he was a school teacher teaching music. Hope it is not a girl school. I will keep a distance from him when alone and if he touches me or try to, I will say no straight away. Or even stop learning with, I am not going to let my fav. hobby turning into a nightmare. Love and light Carol

Scorpion	14 Jun 2002
Carol, Glad it's put it a bit in perspective for you. Perhaps you could envisage him as a worm or some sort of nasty bug you could just squish with your foot without a second thought - that ought to get the proper look of steely disdain in your eyes! People like him can sense who it's safe to bully like that - it's up to you not to let him get the idea in the first place. It's been said that a lot of muggers choose their victims by the way they walk - defensive, nervous etc. He's in the same category. Two men once thought that because I was a woman out late in the City on her own I must have been drinking and they could jump me - I'll never know how, but I managed to get my squash racket out of my bag and fend them off: I think my guardian angel must have stepped in and put me into such a blinding rage! They ran like the cowards they were (mind you, I was a wee bit shaken afterwards when I realised what could have happened). Anyway, just remember that you're paying him in a professional capacity and that's the relationship you expect with him - a professional one: you're calling the shots and he'd better not step out of line! Might be worth investigating whether he's part of an accredited professional body you could report him to if he plays up. Basically, go in armed so you feel secure.

Kellinator	14 Jun 2002
Carol, I've heard that camphor is very effective in discouraging unwanted attentions. Maybe it's worth a try? I've never tried it so I don't know. Good luck. I'm sending good thoughts your way. Kelly

PurpleGoddess	14 Jun 2002
Carol, I'll have you and your friend in my heart with white surrounding you both. Warm fuzzy blanket. I see a wall being built around you to keep this man at a distance. I feel pink like around your friend, something like courage to tell the authorities what he did. It's not right. He's also trying to take her female power away or control by doing this. Keep open also your heart to allow healing for this man because without forgiveness this is all for nothing. Be well and safe! Blessed Be! PG

jade	14 Jun 2002
that's it carol! be empowered! love and light, jade :D:D:D:D

Phoenix	14 Jun 2002
Have you thought of using an invisibility spell?? I don't mean like somethign from Charmed, but I use one when I don't want to be noticed. What I do is before I go out, I imagine myself surrounded with a white mist which I visualize as comming from my body. Then, when I get to the place Iam going, I just re-affrim that the mist there. I re-visualize it. I do this in my car too to avoid attention, and therefore accidents.

Sam	14 Jun 2002
http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?threadid=4427 same question, only posted by me.

mondk	15 Jun 2002
Protecting my body/shielding Practice for 5 min. each day. Types of shields to envision: -pure white light -angelic wings -dense hedge with thorns that may prick the offending person -a force field -outward-facing mirrors -armor -hard shell, like a turtle -I personally, also call on my spirit guides and angel guardians as well. Hope this helps!!! Many blessings!!!!

carolliketarot	16 Jun 2002
Thanks guys. So touched to receive your good thoughts and ideas. I feel empowered. Love and Light Carol

catlin	17 Jun 2002
Hi carol, Protection spells are good but I think working on yourself that you do not look like a well disposed victim would be more effective. Try to join a self-defense group for girls/women where you learn how to handle such situations (not only by force but also verbally/mentally) would certainly be a good idea. You don't have to suffer sexual harassment just because you are a girl.

carolliketarot	18 Jun 2002
PurpleGoddess, you are right. The girl just told me that she had reported the case to the police. Though nothing could be done literally. Catlin, your suggestion is good. Hm...I need to look around or maybe search for the internet to get a quick idea. Love and Light Carol

jakyle	19 Jun 2002
Carry a pepper spray "amulet"on you at all times..... Or,that you REALLY REALLY are looking to get married,and have kids as soon as you can. :D :D OR, mention something about having a restraining order in the past for "stalking" someone................"BUNNY BOILER" Fatal Attraction:D

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