i would like to know about the relationship that will develop between me and the mystery man i am yet to meet in future ... i want to know what kind of relationship it would be and what is the advice for me when this person is around ?!
thank you for offering.
I've rigged up a spread for you that I altered from a Travel Spread in the Power Tarot book.
1. Surrounding influences of this upcoming meeting with mystery man: #20 - The Lady of the Forest
The book describes the Lord and the Lady as "big" energies in this deck. Kind of think Emperor and Empress here. So the Lady has to do with all the feminine aspects deep within you, and this card talks about the changes you experience not being profound in the outer world, but more likely, the inner one... and changes taking a long time to manifest in your outer world. So this gives me a sense that this meeting with the mystery man is far away because it gives the impression that you have much more growth and development to undergo before you meet this man. But when you do meet, you will be a much more fully developed, mature woman.
2. What you need to know about this meeting, things that may be hidden: #51 - In Two Minds
This card represents your own internal dialogue that goes on and it says you can't make up your mind on what it is that you really want here. You are afraid to make a "wrong" decision which keeps you stuck in place (from growing- Lady of the Forest). But what we see as "right" or "wrong" isn't always so. You
can't really make a wrong choice, if you think about it... there is something to be gained from everything we decide. So... is there part of you that wishes and hopes for this meeting; yet another part of you that says 'no way, it can't be that easy'? Get out of your head for a moment and see how you really
feel about it.
3. What you will learn or understand as a result of this meeting: #26 - The Crone
This talks about how scary the crone looks, but if you can see past the "ugly" a "beacon of light will greet you" - in other words, in a seeming pile of crap you can find a pearl, you just have to be looking for it. You will learn to be brave in order to see the good in life, the good in people. This tells me that you might meet someone no different than any past failing relationships. And you might keeping meeting similar people until you "get it" and look past the crap you already expect from them.
4. Advice for you: #25 - The Hero
The Hero represents Strength, Courage, and Unconditional Love. The advice of this card is: Try practicing unconditional love. "That is the single thing that truly overcomes obstacles in our world and in Faerie. It isn't easy. It isn't always comfortable, and it certainly isn't always fun, but it is heroic."
So, I think initially these cards are addressing to you that a "good" mystery man won't come until much later, when you've had sufficient time to learn to appreciate a "good" man... or at least, the good qualities over the bad qualities in a man. The rest of the cards seem to suggest that you won't find someone much different than what you've already experienced, because any changes you are hoping for must happen on the inside first, before you will start to see positive developments in your relationships on the outside. You must learn unconditional love; for yourself, and then someone else.
That's what I get for you, hope it helps a little.