The entire reading is the path to the final phrase: your secret wish is...
A swinging from pro and con and back again, hence the last phrase is point-blank. The outcome does not present you with a certain desire or image, but the wish is the desire's and image's source.
We use the Dondorf's Lenormand for our readings.
1. Your secret wish - Man.
2. I heart it - Key.
3. I dislike it - Clover.
4. restraint - Stork.
5. fulfillment - Stars.
The Man symbolises your secret wish. The word 'man' in the sense of human, means 'to consider, to think', 'to plan'; 'aroused', 'excited'. Related to man are the words mania, mnasthai "to remember", and autó-mathos "thinking and acting on its own terms". Human is 'the thinking one'. To unman a man means to discourage him, so courage is an essential part of the Man. To show himself as a Man, to become a Man, he needs to pluck up courage, he needs to take heart. The Man needs to brace himself up. The Man is awake and vivid. The Man fathers a child.
You have guessed very well my secret wish and you have expressed it in a very good composition. I will begin with this part.. the man.. Here i could simply say i need a man to father my future child which is in tune with my dearest wish that i exposed it already-become a mother.
The Key is how you like your wish. The Key locks and uncloses. To bring to a conclusion means to bring to a close. The Key symbolises a beginning or an end. The Key is either the initial or the last thing to use: when the music is over, turn out the lights. The Key likes the Man, because the Man has courage to think something through until he comes to a final conclusion, or the Man has the courage to begin.
The key paragraph resonates with how i've been dwelling with my thoughts in the past few months- to do or not to do... I think in a sort of way it speaks of ambiguity and puzzles and in order to clear my path i need to first of all aknowledge what i wish dearly to do and allow my intuition work a little.Its not easy but not impossible.
The Clover is how you dislike your wish. Clover's sap is sticky. Because of this sticky sap, the old-english clifan means sticky, clingy. The Clover is a sicky plant. In contrast to the Key, the Clover connects by glueing together. Seperating glued parts usually means to tear them apart, so a clean detachment becomes almost impossible.
The Key connects individual parts, which remain different and distinct. They do not blend and fuse: the father begets a child, but he does not become a child.
The Clover does not like the Man, because the Man relates by thinking, and the Clover by sticking and glueing. Even when the Man combines, each thing remains seperated and distinct, while the Clover blends and mingles seperated things to a living entity. The stickiness of life builds a body.
Being patient is something i've learned from my mistakes because i used to be impulsive and cut from the base and then regret my deeds. Therefore i know that doing a sudden change in my life its almost impossible. I need time and to weigh the pros and cons. U have explained very well how i see things too even though these details were not amongst my knowledges. Im almost dependable on something and i cannot unglue myself from that. It is a contradiction of feelings within me that i could not write down in words because its impossible.
The Stork is the restraint. Outside factors beyond your control. You cannot control the world by connecting with it, neither by stickiness nor by key competence.
The Stork has a silly walk: a stiff gait. When the Stork is standing still, he is congealed and stilted. The Stork is as stiff as a poker, the bird plays dead. A dead parrot (pushing up the daisies). Playing dead means: one does not wish to connect and relate. One is neither sticky (alive), nor open for a conclusion, a beginning, an ending.
A cold one, in the sense of dismissive. Discouraging by congealing you, rigid with fear, frozen in terror.
Yes!!!!!Im not ready for closing this chapter yet. Basically i have moments when i feel the entire world is falling in pieces like a castles of cards but then i realise that i have to clear my mind and regain my senses and strength.
The Stars fulfill your wish. Star means sprinkled to the sky. A constellation (latin: stella) is a formation of stars. The word Star comes from old-english stræl which means line, streak, dash. A Star is a lightning bolt: shooting light. The shine of the Stars are rays of light. The light is a light touch. What is touched by light becomes visible.
The Stars fulfill the wish not by glueing, or open and closing, but by touching and brushing. Touched by light, the object connects with the eye of the beholder. So the mind becomes aware of it, and the object is conceivable. The starlight connects eye and mind.
A stargazer looks up to the sky, dreaming up a future. The stargazer deduces a possible future. The Stars are telling their truth. In the horoscope, the individual constellation of the Stars is shown which fates the destiny. The Man thinks about his future, the Stars guide the way because they reveal the destiny. One is interested in fate because one wishes to know what is coming and what to expect in order to be well prepared. Fulfilling fate means to go your own way.
The way the Man connects is by insight and cognition. The Man connects by considering. Your secret wish is attaining sophrosyne; Prudence is deliberating. Your wish is to understand yourself, which means to take care of yourself. To like yourself, and to feel encouraged to be yourself. There cannot be courage without understanding.
Hope this resonates with you!
