Just to point out, seeing as you were kind of passive aggressive in thanking Grizabella and stating that she sets a good example for newbies when you were just asking for honest opinions from all of us on this thread.
How is thanking someone for agreeing with my point of view being passive aggressive?! Are you serious!!!!
Like Grizabella mentioned as well, the readings are being publicly offered and I offered to take them.... readings are offered all the time in the 'reading exchange' section. How can someone sit there and judge who 'needs' a reading more than others! The section is not for those in 'need' of a reading!!!
As a newbie you should know that this whole forum is a learning forum and it is usually a learning forum for those wanting to develop or learn more about the art of tarot.
By taking an offer for a reading I was not taking someone else's oxygen! It is no life and death matter. I have been with AT for almost 2 years now and I have only sat for readings on that section very recently because I never got involved with it and thought I'd try it out!! It was new grounds for me to explore!
Ya know the saying "curiosity killed the cat"? LOL
One of the reasons I like to read the "your readings" is to see the different intepretations of the cards and the reading itself. It helps me to understand the cards better. You could always do your own reading....post it in "your readings" and still have fun seeing what everyone else comes up with : )
Haha! I know it too well!! .... I am active in that section, not as active as I'd like to be but like I have mentioned in a previous post, I have given dozens of interpretations in the 'Your Readings' section with absolutely no expectations from person requesting that interpretation!
I understand the feeling of wanting to be heard by someone. I have been there myself. But i also understand that we are all different. Therefore, just because I personally wouldn't ask the same question multiple times on a Reading Exchange forum (for the simple fact that I wanted to be heard and wanted attention) doesn't mean everyone else should follow my example. I'm not even a good example most of the time anyway. However, I am genuinely lost as to why someone would choose a reading exchange forum out of all the places on AT. isnt that what Talking Tarot or Chat is for? I'm not trying to be mean or snarky...I'm genuinely trying to understand the logic behind it.
I think Grizabella picked up on the main points here and as I agree with what she said I won't bother repeating!
However, I wanted to add that (as mentioned time and time again!) this whole forum is a learning forum! Every section is a section for learning and development, however, the focus of the sections varies!
I know I'm not being singled out on this.....I had said if she asked every question twice....No.......NOT because I have a problem with it....I could care less....only because she would probably get flack about it like she is in this thread.
Grizabella makes an excellent point about there not being a shortage of readers.
Yes, I don't think a lot of the people who have commented on this thread sat back to consider me on an individual basis..... it seems like frustration from other sitters they have had or are used to is being vented on here.... it is fine, I can understand and if it makes them feel better then so be it.... however, I will not tolerate offensive comments when they do not know me or have not come across me enough to be able to make those comments!
I cannot help but thank you again Grizabella for taking your time to comment in here, I really appreciate it! And thank you Melia as well, you make a good point which all the readers are by-passing....
Noone is forcing anyone to give any readings! The point of this thread is that I was made to feel bad for asking the same question to two separate readers and I wanted honest viewpoints on this too...
Some of the comments have diverted into irrelevant aspects, and some have been unnecessarily rude/harsh!
I appreciate the comments made in a logical manner and in an attempt to allow me to understand their viewpoints... however, for the other comments trying to be-little me and make me seem like some desperate person desperately seeking out the answer I want, well, try to look inwards a bit more!
If anyone else has a constructive comment on this, I will most welcome it... however, if you want another rant about your average sitter, please find yourself another avenue!
Thank you
Seeker