I was recently doing some soul-searching about my job (I'm a teacher) and drew some cards that have eluded translation and understanding for me. The first card I pulled was for "what are my strengths as a teacher?". For this, I got the 4 of Cups.
Emotional stability is a fantastic strength for a teacher.
The next card I pulled was "what can I build on within my strength?". For this, I got the 6 of Cups, which...feels right? I think of this as a card of childhood, lots of soft sunlight and feel-good moments, gentle nurturing, always having a nostalgic eye on the past and a deep awareness of innocence and sweetness, which...is appropriate, given my line of work. I'm very much in touch with my inner child in what I do.
And being emotionally stable (the Four Cups) will allow you to tap into your own memory of being a child, good or bad, (Six Cups) in order to better nourish the children in your care (Six Cups again)
I'm having a hard time finding alternative interpretations of this card. Any thoughts?
Well, cups are about your emotional life, and fours are about stability-within-that-element. The RW card shows someone sitting under a tree "owning" three Cups, and refusing to be tempted by an outside, bigger, flashy cup, making it the quintessential card of faithfulness, and also dedication to a chosen path.
The vast majority of humans seem to enjoy drama. They seem to like relationships that they need to workshop with others. When you are emotionally stable, your relationship might well be fine for years on end, but you just don't talk about it to people around you, because there's nothing to say. So the majority of people actually regard it as a card of boredom, because they'd rather have intense highs and intense lows (down to and including domestic violence) to having a steady-state emotional life that just doesn't provide fuel for gossip. But once you really have hit the lows in life (as, in fact, I have), them emotional stability is absolutely precious, not boring, even if it means you don't have much to say about your emotional life to others in general conversation.
And emotional stability in relationships (in a personality), spills out into the way teachers handle kids: calm, centred teachers who are predictably impartial and fair to all their kids might not be charismatic, but charisma doesn't imply good teaching, whereas fair attention to your young charges does.
the only thing I can think of that would kiiiiiinda make sense for the 4 of Cups being a strength is the idea of interpreting it as being a card of reflection. So maybe it's saying that my tendency to be very introspective and analytical is my greatest strength? That my self-awareness and effort to keep my frustration/anger/etc in check when my students are pushing my buttons are more powerful than I think?
I think all water-cards are in some way cards of reflection. And that very tendency to keep your emotions in check is a part of your overall emotional stability (Four Cups) that I was talking about - it doesn't mean being emotionless, just being sane and reliable in how you express emotions in the workplace.