LindaMechele
If you get paid, that IS a real exchange. If you set your prices correctly, they should reflect adequate compensation and expecting more is unfair. To expect someone who has paid you to track you down later to give feedback would make it a lopsided exchange with the querent getting the short end of the stick. Except for Ebay sellers where feedback is part of the business model (but even then is voluntary), I can't think of ANY profession where feedback is given or even expected. Why should tarot reading be any different?True but I just feel that the reader should get more out of it and that it should be a real exchange. I like feedback. I want people to come back to me and tell me what happened
To the thread in general: As far as the "to charge or not to charge" question, my opinions have already been stated by others rather eloquently...
I don't think it's sad at all. A lot of people have worked a long time to develop their reading skills, doing free readings for years and finding out what works for them. After all that work, wouldn't you want to get a little something back for your trouble?
I agree that there are a lot of people out there who only use tarot as a way to rip people off, and those people really make me upset. They give people who read tarot a bad name. But that's different than developing your skills and feeling ready to start charging for readings for the general public. It's just like someone going to a college or technical school to perfect their craft, then opening a business so they can start making a living off of it. Some are going to cut corners and are just in it for the money, but others love what they do and want to live from it.
Money has always been a big deal. People have been making money off tarot and all sorts of fortune telling and mystical things for dozens, probably hundreds, of years, so that's nothing new. We do, however, have to adapt to the times. Thirty years ago there were no online services, and ten years ago there were no apps. Everything evolves; society, tarot readers, and jobs as a whole, so I see no reason why people shouldn't find new ways to make a living or just make a few extra bucks doing what they love.
For people who really *do* think it's sad to charge, I ask why? Tarot readers are selling a skill. It's no different than any other trade or service industry.
Exactly. And until the electric company and grocery store start accepting readings and healings as the exchange, readers will need money. If we all expect tarot readers to do it for free, I doubt there would be many who would or even could, which would mean fewer readers which would mean tarot readings would not be available to many people.Well, I'm perfectly happy to take money for a Tarot reading. A card reading is draining and it requires an exchange of energy - the client is taking my energy when I read for them. Consequently the client needs to pay me for my energy in some form of energy in return.
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It's still just a way of recognizing that energy exchange and of correcting for the imbalance that a reading creates. That's all. It's no more moral than is any other action - but people can easily make it immoral. The money itself doesn't care either way.
RubyJewel! We have the same plan! I have a '68 Avion (like an Airstream, but tougher frame and undercarriage) that's awaiting custom rebuilding for retirement adventures on the road that hopefully will include some tarot reading (for pay!) at fairs and festivals wherever I can find them. I'll get started on it just as soon as I finish the '47 Glider (all original and the fridge even still works!). I've been researching vintage trailer remodeling for years, so if you need someone to bounce ideas off of, just holler at me.I recently bought a small vintage trailer that I'm going to paint as a "gypsy vardo" and plan to go on the road with my four cats at some point.....just part of my retirement plan. I'm 72. Don't fuss. Have fun. Life is short.
Yes, life is short. Less fuss, more fun is the way to go.