crowpiper
So, I had lots of classmates come to me with issues about love triangles. And I found that they were never really satisfied with a simple, unpersonalized spread. So I developed a love triangle spread. Kids usually seem to understand better when I use the past-present-future approach, so I incorporated that as well.
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*9***********5*
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*8**6**1**2**4*
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*7***********3*
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1-The center of the triangle (be it the quarent or someone else)
2-The first person involved (if the quarent isn't the center I usually make them #2)
3-This person's past with the center and how they felt
4-How this person presently feels or is going through in the situation
5-This person's future with the center
6-The other person involved
7-This person's past with the center and how they felt
8-How this person presently feels or is going through in the situation
9-This person's future with the center
I purposefully left out an outcome card because I like to let my quarents figure out their problems on their own, using the cards as a light to shine on the problem and help them understand the situation better. However, an outcome card can easily be adapted.
The spread can be added on to for love squares and pentagons (lol) by doing four cards per extra person above or below the center.
Hope this comes in handy for someone. It's one of my most used spreads. But then, high school is STUFFED with drama all the time. Lol!
-Love from Piper <3
***************
*9***********5*
***************
*8**6**1**2**4*
***************
*7***********3*
***************
1-The center of the triangle (be it the quarent or someone else)
2-The first person involved (if the quarent isn't the center I usually make them #2)
3-This person's past with the center and how they felt
4-How this person presently feels or is going through in the situation
5-This person's future with the center
6-The other person involved
7-This person's past with the center and how they felt
8-How this person presently feels or is going through in the situation
9-This person's future with the center
I purposefully left out an outcome card because I like to let my quarents figure out their problems on their own, using the cards as a light to shine on the problem and help them understand the situation better. However, an outcome card can easily be adapted.
The spread can be added on to for love squares and pentagons (lol) by doing four cards per extra person above or below the center.
Hope this comes in handy for someone. It's one of my most used spreads. But then, high school is STUFFED with drama all the time. Lol!
-Love from Piper <3
