stone_lotus
I came up with this spread today to gain some insight onto why my friendship with an ex isn't moving forward, as I'd thought it would.
For the moment I'm calling it the "stalemate" spread because that popped into my head, but I'm not thrilled with this title so if you have any ideas, suggestions welcome! Something like "Standstill", maybe?
Also, please let me know if there's anything you'd tweak -- I'm fairly new at inventing spreads and very open to input/feedback. I'm posting this one here because the results were illuminating for me and it seems to work well. : )
....[3]....[6]............
[1]....[4]....[7]....[8]
....[2]....[5]............
[1]: How Partner feels about situation
[2]: What's holding Partner back from action
[3]: What Partner really wants
[4]: How Querent feels about situation
[5]: What's holding Querent back from action
[6]: What Querent really wants
[7]: What Querent can do to break the stalemate
[8]: Likely outcome
For the moment I'm calling it the "stalemate" spread because that popped into my head, but I'm not thrilled with this title so if you have any ideas, suggestions welcome! Something like "Standstill", maybe?
Also, please let me know if there's anything you'd tweak -- I'm fairly new at inventing spreads and very open to input/feedback. I'm posting this one here because the results were illuminating for me and it seems to work well. : )
....[3]....[6]............
[1]....[4]....[7]....[8]
....[2]....[5]............
[1]: How Partner feels about situation
[2]: What's holding Partner back from action
[3]: What Partner really wants
[4]: How Querent feels about situation
[5]: What's holding Querent back from action
[6]: What Querent really wants
[7]: What Querent can do to break the stalemate
[8]: Likely outcome