Bezfaery said:
I got 5 pentacles. The other cards suggest that he is cautious due to emotional stress and conflicts so I am thinking it maybe means that he is looking to her for hope and guidance(?) but I am worried because this isn't a very positive card. Does it really mean that he sees her in a negative light.
Please can someone give me their opinion as not totally trusting my intuition yet.
Whether his impression of her is positive or negative depends on what *he* is looking for. He doesn't see her as someone with money--but that might be good, because he might feel relieved that she isn't the type to hide her real self behind bling and pretty dresses; he may also be relieved that she won't expect him to wine and dine her--a poor person (so to speak) is happy with simple pleasures, and doesn't, as some rich folk do, demand the best, looking down their noses at anything less.
BUT if this guy is looking for someone physically and financially "rich" then he could be disappointed in her. He could see her as plain, poor, without much of a future between them sexually. He might fear she'll "mooch" off him--i.e. that *she* is after him for HIS money, because she hasn't any herself.
Ultimately, his impression of her is that yes, she's genuine, what he sees is what he gets. And that's good. But depending on what he wants in a relationship, it might not be *too* good. Her simplicity and honesty and lack of artifice is great. But what is he looking for in a woman? She is also plain, simple, and probably isn't, at this stage, very sexually attractive to him. If a "spiritual" connection is what he's after right now, she's golden. But this lack of sexual attraction might interfere with the relationship later on...unless that first impression changes as he gets to know her.
