obsidian_queen
Hey ppl
I did a self-reading about a particular situation I had recently where things didn't work out with someone I was seeing, and I felt like I'd been taken for a ride. I did a Celtic Cross (using the Revelations Tarot Deck) and in the position designated for how the querent sees the situation, I drew the Fool reversed. For some reason the very first thing that popped into my head was "I feel like a fool". In the negative sense that is, where humiliation at being naive plays a role. I felt like I trusted this guy and got burned, and I'm not likely to take a risk with him again..and for me, this meaning stuck.
That being said, it got me thinking, since I feel as though it's my fault I wasn't more cautious, what other cards can indicate that the querent is feeling self blame? Conversely, what cards demonstrate a tendency to blame others?
For self-blame so far I've got:
Fool Rx
9 of swords
8 of swords
....still thinking of others because I KNOW there's more
For shirking responsibility for an issue/placing blame on others
10 of wands Rx...feel like this meaning applies in tandem with another card though.
It just occurred to me that certain COMBINATIONS of cards would also indicate the types of blame and I wondered if anyone has any suggestions to those as well. Any ideas?
I did a self-reading about a particular situation I had recently where things didn't work out with someone I was seeing, and I felt like I'd been taken for a ride. I did a Celtic Cross (using the Revelations Tarot Deck) and in the position designated for how the querent sees the situation, I drew the Fool reversed. For some reason the very first thing that popped into my head was "I feel like a fool". In the negative sense that is, where humiliation at being naive plays a role. I felt like I trusted this guy and got burned, and I'm not likely to take a risk with him again..and for me, this meaning stuck.
That being said, it got me thinking, since I feel as though it's my fault I wasn't more cautious, what other cards can indicate that the querent is feeling self blame? Conversely, what cards demonstrate a tendency to blame others?
For self-blame so far I've got:
Fool Rx
9 of swords
8 of swords
....still thinking of others because I KNOW there's more
For shirking responsibility for an issue/placing blame on others
10 of wands Rx...feel like this meaning applies in tandem with another card though.
It just occurred to me that certain COMBINATIONS of cards would also indicate the types of blame and I wondered if anyone has any suggestions to those as well. Any ideas?