How do you, deal with a reading that shows, that you may have a bad week ahead.I am interested in the ways we use to change the course of events,that show up in a personal reading.That is if you do think we can change the direction of a reading that predicts certain events. .? Clive...
I don't personally use spreads, so really the trick is in asking the right questions and phrasing them in the best way.
My first thought is that you should be specific as to what you want to change it too. Change is change and it can be for the better or for the worse. You don't just want change you want a spefific kind of change.
For example, I would not just ask: "What can I do now that will change where I am headign in my relationship with X?" I would ask for the specifiic kind of change i want.
EG " What can I do now that will encourage a better communication between X and I this week? Or to create a more open caring atmosphere between. Or even "What can I do now to prevent "Y" from happening between us thsi week.
My favourite is to ask "What steps can I take now to...." Then the cards will list the steps you need to take one by one and you can take them and then change your fuutre.
In my worldview though, things cannot always be changed. USUALLY they can by not always. some things are fated to haooen. But those tend to be rare and fae between. But if the cards tell you there is nothing you can do. And you have to let it go. And, in my belief system.....then you can be grateful, Becafuse when those tshings come up, they are always in our best interest.
Babs