I don't have any deck to suggest, since I'm mostly using animal themed decks (I have such a hard time finding ones with humans with a kind of art I like!), but I'm happy to see that kind of request on the forum and I'm even more happy to see good suggestions being given!
I'm loving some more diversity regarding the genders, sexuality and everything related to those stereotypes.
It might not fit what you are looking for, but I have the Manga Tarot (the one by Riccardo Minetti) and since the genders have been switched around for all cards (from the RWS tradition) there are many women depicted in men's clothing and even fighting suits and armor. There is also the 3 of chalices with 3 men dressed in women's clothes and showing off their fans! ( this one :
http://www.aeclectic.net/tarot/cards/_img/manga-minetti-05141.jpg )
Other than that, they are all mostly wearing traditional yukatas and kimonos.
Also I used to own the Steampunk Tarot by Moore and it's true, all pages are women wearing pants!