Sulis
I've been reading exclusively with TdMs since last November and I love it. I've always used numerology and element and I think I've finally accepted that these are the decks for me - no esoteric stuff, just tarot.
BUT
I have a problem:
I have a need to read for others face to face. I've done readings about it and doing face to face readings for strangers really does seem to be the next step for me; the way forward. I really want to do it but I have a fear of it and I've worked out what that fear stems from:
In the past when I've read for others in person, most of them haven't had a question, they've just asked for 'a general reading'.
Now these have never been my strong point - I work best with tarot when I have a focus or a distinct question to answer so I think my fear is there because I suck at general readings and with TdMs I really suck at them... I just can't get a focus, especially if there are no trumps.
When I read with pip decks I tend to read the cards in groups, usually 3, 5 or 7. I look for the story, I don't really read them as individual card meanings, I look to see how they relate to each other, elements that appear across the cards, repeating patterns etc...
Does anyone have any tips about general readings with TdMs?
I have a feeling that if I crack these types of reading my fear of live readings will go and I'll have taken a huge tarot leap forward...
Edited to add: I've just started doing general, daily draws with my TdMs since I think they will help me; 3 cards in the morning then a look back at them in the evening to review the day.
Help!
BUT
I have a problem:
I have a need to read for others face to face. I've done readings about it and doing face to face readings for strangers really does seem to be the next step for me; the way forward. I really want to do it but I have a fear of it and I've worked out what that fear stems from:
In the past when I've read for others in person, most of them haven't had a question, they've just asked for 'a general reading'.
Now these have never been my strong point - I work best with tarot when I have a focus or a distinct question to answer so I think my fear is there because I suck at general readings and with TdMs I really suck at them... I just can't get a focus, especially if there are no trumps.
When I read with pip decks I tend to read the cards in groups, usually 3, 5 or 7. I look for the story, I don't really read them as individual card meanings, I look to see how they relate to each other, elements that appear across the cards, repeating patterns etc...
Does anyone have any tips about general readings with TdMs?
I have a feeling that if I crack these types of reading my fear of live readings will go and I'll have taken a huge tarot leap forward...
Edited to add: I've just started doing general, daily draws with my TdMs since I think they will help me; 3 cards in the morning then a look back at them in the evening to review the day.
Help!