214red said:
I had the emperor card as a stalker card (RWS), and i took it out and asked the same question about where, and kept getting the 4 of swords (sensual wicca).
The Emperor is always shown in a throne room--his command center. That is the place where he reminds everyone of who is in control, of who is the authority in that land. It is a place that focuses his passion, and sharpens his mind, a place where he turns chaos into order. So. Where is your command center? When you're there, you are in command, your passions are focused, your mind gets clear and sharp, anxieties fall away, you get re-energized, and it's like you can control your life. 4/Swords, a place to retreat to in order to get you re-energized and re-focused. Just like the Emperor's throne room, only quieter and more serene.
Understand, by the way, that you only got 4/Swords because you removed the Emperor...which forced the cards to say, "Well, if we can't use that card (Emperor), we'll use this one that confuses our reader even more (4/Swords)..." The cards will slap your hands (as it were) if you insist on an answer, but refuse to listen to that answer. Removing a stalker card from the reading isn't the solution. Asking the deck to explain the stalker card is.
Next time you get a stalker, take it out and rather than putting it aside, focus on it. Say to the deck: "I don't understand, can you clarify?" Then shuffle and put down other cards atop the emperor (or do a spread around it), allowing the cards to explain. Remember, stalker cards aren't always a message about a particular question--they can be a general message that the cards want you to hear right now--like "Emperor! Call your dad!" or "Emperor! Talk to your boss!" They're a red flag and the message may be important in and of itself, not as part of the question you're asking.
Removing them from the deck is like ignoring an urgent e-mail.