Rwcarter
Yes,completely! Except the ''you can't see it part ''. I can see it, but just the problem is, as I said- I have distractions in the form of obligations sadly. I dont like doing these obligations but there are people that I need to be with during the day or other stuff I really dislike doing and in the running around to complete my daily duties I get,as I said, distracted from THINKING about my feelings. Sadly I can not avoid being distracted by my daily obligations, but I will now try extra hard to not let myself go so into them that I dont have time to feel the love for my boyfriend. It's almost like I am numb from these distractions to feel feelings, does that ring true with the card?
I tried to make sure to still tell him I care and that he means to me, but I must admit it didnt sound really...truthfull. It wasnt said with a lot of emotion or passion but like I said,it is not because I am not feeling those things but I am a bit numb to experiencing emotions because of what is preocupying me.
The other word for the card is Luxury,and I do feel my boyfriend is a luxury to have
He is an amazing man, and any woman would be so,so,so lucky to be with him.
I would hate to think that I am self absorbed and arrogant and that I dont see what a good thing I have, I would really dislike myself if I were like that,so I hope the 4 of Cups for me is pointing to what I have described, because if it is me taking him for granted I would be really dissapointed in myself as a person.
Grizabella
I see this as well, faithfullness, a trait nobody accociated with this card! I can go to extremes- not wanting to meet new men and not even go out where there is a posibility of meeting new men,I'd rather completely focus one weekend for my boyfriend instead, I am a bit too closed off when other men are concerned.