claira justine said:
Just a quick question. If you were to go to a tarot reader, how often is ok? Can you go to a different tarot reader and ask the same question? Will you get a valid answer that way? Or can you go to one tarot reader, let say, every other week just to see how the general areas of your life is going according to the cards that comes up?
The one thing you do not want to do is become obsessed with getting tarot readings. Going to a reader on a daily or even weekly basis is a waste of your life, and an undermining of your ability to judge that life and live that life. You can't be so afraid of life, so afraid of what will be, that you can't sometimes trust yourself and make decisions.
Go to a tarot reader as you would go to a doctor. Once a year for a check up, and when very big, important stuff is happening and you really need someone's help in understanding the situation so that you can decide. Keep in mind that a good tarot reader will not tell you what to do, or promise you a happy future, or scare you with a dire one. They'll say, "This is the situation, and here is what you can do about it, and if you do this, then it's very likely this will happen." Their job is to help you understand the situation and give you the best advice for the best, possible outcome. But the decision is always yours in the end.
So, in answer to your question. Yes, you can go to more than one reader with a question
at first and only at first. As you would in looking for a good doctor. But as with a doctor, don't go to several looking for the opinion you want (that is, the answer you want from the cards). If the news is bad, it's bad, and you need to accept that. What you're looking for is the best doctor to help you find the best way to deal with the bad news.
Next, once you find a reader who feels accurate, doesn't charge an arm-and-a-leg, who you like and trust, do not visit them more than once a month. However worried, scared, bothered, in need of a sympathetic ear you are, no more than once a month. They are not a stand-in for a friend. You need a friend, find a place where you can make friends. This person is charging you and is a professional. View them as such. And try to ask a different question each time you come, rather than asking, once a month, "How's my love life?"
This isn't just to make sure you are living your life rather than obsessing over it. It's to allow for time for change. It's not likely that a situation on Monday is going to change that much over the week. It's far more likely that the situation will have changed from November to December. And in asking different questions you may find new insights. The same question, over and over again, is like an astronomer only looking at one part of the sky. What if the comet you want to see is in another part?
A Tarot reader advisor can be great for helping you to get insight into your life, your situation, your problems and yourself and knowing what might be best to do to improve your life or deal with problems. But they must be used wisely and with restraint. If they become a crutch, then they don't do you any good at all.