Grizabella
I much prefer reading face-to-face, although I do email, chat, read on the forum, and do chat readings as well if it comes up. Face-to-face is so much more personal for someone who really needs that personal contact. At least for me.
The reading I did has turned up some very, very personal things that I feel sort of uncomfortable discussing with him. He is openly gay, but I know that he had a hard time coming out (his family is very traditional/religious). A lot of the reading seems to pertain to how difficult a time this was for him.
Is there ever a point where you censor yourself in a reading, in order to allow the querent their sense of privacy?
Never Censor it is about finding a way to deliver the message with compassion and understanding.....and know you care enough not to share this knowledge with anyone else....aslong it is done with integrity and from the heart you will be fine.... Trust in self and know the message you deliver is only done from the heart.....
Take care
I was asked by a friend of mine to do a reading about his next romantic relationship. This is a friend of a friend, actually, who I enjoy very much but don't know on a deep personal level yet. He asked me to do this reading for him when he heard that I was studying the Tarot.
The reading I did has turned up some very, very personal things that I feel sort of uncomfortable discussing with him. He is openly gay, but I know that he had a hard time coming out (his family is very traditional/religious). A lot of the reading seems to pertain to how difficult a time this was for him.
Is there ever a point where you censor yourself in a reading, in order to allow the querent their sense of privacy? I really don't think he would have a problem discussing any of this with me, but I also don't think he realized quite how personal a reading can be....
Any advice would be appreciated.
Nope. It's a discussion between the cards and him, you are merely a translator. Occasionally it might be necessary to remind him that readings are utterly confidential and won't be repeated. It's sometimes also a good thing to say something like "I understand this is awful for you and my heart goes out to you, but this is what teh cards are trying to tell you".
Never had to censor.
I think you'll be happier with that choice in the long run.Wow, thank you all for the wonderful advice! I thought I'd update on how it went, and that is, I *think* quite well, although he didn't really give me much feedback on it.
Either way, judging by all of your responses, I think I did the right thing in relaying all of the information to him, and in a gentle way.