loquitaaphrodite
thank you for the tips. ive never heard of smokey quartz before, i'll order it on ebay. would it be okay to wear more than one type of crystal. i love the rose crystal b/c i want to bring love in my life, but i think i should also try wearing the smokey quartz. i need something to heal the anger that lives within me.
I've had a few people in the medical field confide that they wear crystals at work to absorb the negative energy. Eventually the crystals become "full" and break. The people then purchase another crystal. I showed them how to clear crystals, so favorite crystals could stay with them. The rose quartz/tv thing feels directly related to your grief.
For grief, smokey quartz usually excels. It feels so comforting and understanding. It'll be glad to take on some of your burden, to help you feel better and sort things out. For nightmares, try snowflake obsidian. A cute little carved animal works fine or just a piece that appeals to you. Place it near your bed, beneath it or beneath your pillow. Trust. To keep your stones clear, all of them, pick up a piece of selenite. Selenite is inexpensive. Place other stones on or near it, and watch 'em perk up!