Haizea
Can you explain the cards? I can't imagine how in a question like "How can I rekindle this relationship?" everything looked bad.
I'm not sure if this topic has been covered before, but I could use some quick advice. I did a reading for someone. The focus was supposed to be on her relationship with her partner and how to strengthen it . . . but that's not really what I got. I got a pretty overwhelming negative message. Now I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell her that the relationship looks over to me, because what if I'm wrong? I don't want to lie either. Then I noticed that I had gotten her first name correct but her last name wrong in my notebook, and now I'm wondering if that could actually screw up the reading even though she was intended in my mind. Thoughts? I'm a day late in sending her the reading, but I just don't know what to say!
Can you explain the cards? I can't imagine how in a question like "How can I rekindle this relationship?" everything looked bad.
Perhaps she asked how to strengthen the relationship because she was already intuitively aware that it was weak or damaged. Give her exactly what you get from the cards. With compassion, not brutality.The focus was supposed to be on her relationship with her partner and how to strengthen it . . . but that's not really what I got. I got a pretty overwhelming negative message.
Nup. I do scads of readings in the exchange circle sub-forum here, and the overwhelming majority of my clients feel that they are personal and specific. I don't know any part of their real name, just their AT name. And often, during the reading I completely forget who I'm reading for, anyway, and just focus on the cards in front of me.Then I noticed that I had gotten her first name correct but her last name wrong in my notebook, and now I'm wondering if that could actually screw up the reading even though she was intended in my mind.
It sounds like you handled it well--with gentle, but honest, sensitivity.
You may want to remember that more often than not when a seeker comes to a reader for relationship advice, it is because there is something amiss in the union. If things are going splendidly, most people won't need to seek advice from the cards for affirmation. A lot of times, a seeker will sugarcoat what she intuits is a problem, hoping the reader will tell her it's all in her mind and everything is okay after all.
And as the others have said, sometimes just hearing from a reader about what may be wrong is enough for a seeker to begin to find her solutions to the problem(s)...which is often the whole point of getting a reading.
Well done.