I didn't know whether to put this in here or divination, so I'm sorry if this is the wrong place
I received a beautiful rose quartz pendulum in the halloween exchange, but I have never used one before.
So without sounding stupid
I was wondering if anyone could tell me how you use it, what you use it for etc.
Thanks!
as far as how to use a pendulum, they're basically used in divination for yes/no type questions. like thunderwolf mentioned, first you need to establish what movement is for what answer. if you're new to using pendulums, it's best to rest your elbow of the arm holding the pendulum on a tabletop or something to help keep your hand steady. I was always told to keep a light and easy hold on the end of the chain. ask it to show you a "yes" and then a "no" and then you can practice to confirm the movements by asking questions for which you already know the answers to.
as some people have said, pendulums made of different materials may be better suited to some types of questions than others. Rose quartz relates to the heart chakra so it's easy to say that it might resonate well with answering questions about emotions or like celticnoodle said, illness and healing. That's not to say that you should feel limited to only asking those types of questions, or that you need to go get another pendulum for "general" questions.
janie had some good suggestions on ways to use your pendulum. I haven't tried using it for spirit communication (i find spirits are quite well equipped to communicate if they want to), and have had mixed results using it to find things (i'm not much of a Finder...seems i'm misplacing things more often than finding things!
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in addition to using it for yes/no questions, i also use it on occasion as a tool in chakra/energy balancing. By watching how the pendulum moves over chakras or while scanning energy (of people and places) it helps to see areas that need help.
enjoy using your pendulum!