halil
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Ronia: Yeah, I remember the spread... at least mine seems to be progressing somewhere, if at all slowly. Sorry Ronia.
You're right about the kind of man I want, but I don't like him just because he's conflicted. I liked him long before that. It's because he's conflicted that I walked away from the friendship once already. I didn't want to hurt anyone and it seemed like the right thing to do.
The ring in this instance isn't a relationship. It's a yes to whether or not they would be happy together. go ahead and try to get an answer for her using the question you put forward and see if it comes up differently. You got me curious.
its not controversy, its very interesting to play and see how the cards work for all of us.I didn't mean to cause so much controversy. I actually did the spread for myself before posting it on here and my cards wouldn't answer the question. They basically said conversation was necessary, a man is confused, but something unexpected will occur. It didn't have anything to do with whether we'd be happy together.
Maybe it would help everyone if I elaborated. This is close to the decision he is facing. He has a long-term girlfriend, and although they haven't always had the best relationship, he's comfortable and doesn't want to hurt her. We've been best friends since we were kids, and always knew how the other felt, but neither of us realized how we felt about each other until recently. It's an issue we always avoided and just assumed we were friends and that's that. Things have changed. I ended our friendship because I didn't want to make him think he had to choose between us. He asked me to reconsider, and I received a very clear cosmic message that I shouldn't end our friendship and I had no choice in what would come (You'd probably love the bird story Red!) Now he's seriously considering things, and I know his decision could go either way. My hands are tied. We also currently live on opposite sides of the country, so those 3,000 miles are also an obstacle to overcome and contribute to some of the anxiety. There's a lot of uncertainty and a lot of talk. I wouldn't be surprised if Moira is right about the decision he makes.
When I read everyone's take on the spread, it makes sense because I know the whole situation. I don't know if the extra information changes anyone's interpretation.
Oh, but that's good news, LE! If yours is still progressing this gives me hope mine still has time to move on! All is well!
halil, I don't think there is any controversy caused, we're all trying to find out what didn't work and why. Besides, taking the cards too seriously is not a good thing, in my humble opinion. I believe we are all wise enough to take it with a grain of salt and not rely too much on cards or anything else for that matter. I respect my cards, I respect my intuition, others' too, but I realize it's not like 100% guarantee.
so now does this change the opinion of the reading before hand?Woman - House - Ring - Mice - Key
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Also, why wouldnt you rely on your own readings? I have a couple of people i know personally that occasionally if i am stumped i go to them, its rare but it often confirms what i have been told, and yes you have to discern the information, but the medium/conduit i trust so therefore the message i trust. I dont understand why you wouldnt trust your own readings, whats the point of reading if you dont trust them? its not the cards i trust, its the source and the conduit, those things are what make me trust, and if i feel its right.