Ace
I found years ago that laying out a spread for myself lead me to cards that just described the situation as I knew it, but didn't give me any answers. Another person told me the same thing, and I told her what I had realized: you need to just stop using the cards and sit down and think about the problem and find the solution in yourself. What I told her: stop and sit back and say "OK, head, tell me what I need to know."
Sometimes, however, you really need a reading. I would suggest finding someone to do it for you if possible. If NOT possible, then use the Little White Book (LWB) that came with the deck. That way, you can't "fudge" the meaning to mean what you WANT it to mean. It will ALWAYS mean what the artist or writer of the LWB SAYS it means. Usually, that will work.
My Gddaughter suggested something else I find true: If you read tarot professionally (as I do) find another oracle for your PERSONAL oracle. I read I Ching for myself. Having a different oracle gives you a new viewpoint.
barb
Sometimes, however, you really need a reading. I would suggest finding someone to do it for you if possible. If NOT possible, then use the Little White Book (LWB) that came with the deck. That way, you can't "fudge" the meaning to mean what you WANT it to mean. It will ALWAYS mean what the artist or writer of the LWB SAYS it means. Usually, that will work.
My Gddaughter suggested something else I find true: If you read tarot professionally (as I do) find another oracle for your PERSONAL oracle. I read I Ching for myself. Having a different oracle gives you a new viewpoint.
barb