Carojulie
I would have no problem letting my husband use most of my deck if he were so inclined, I would just make sure he treats them with care.
The only decks we really share are the playing card decks and the tarot decks for playing the game of tarot. These decks are attached to the home, not to either one of us in particular - they belong to the family. And, you should see what state they are in.. sight... eventhough I insist that everybody have clean hands, and that we use a cloth to spread on the table before we play. These decks show their wear... sight.
For divination decks, it is different. My sense of "parenting" the deck is strong ! and I feel responsible for the way the deck is treated, stored etc... So my decks are my decks. I let loved ones use them, but they are still mine.
The only decks we really share are the playing card decks and the tarot decks for playing the game of tarot. These decks are attached to the home, not to either one of us in particular - they belong to the family. And, you should see what state they are in.. sight... eventhough I insist that everybody have clean hands, and that we use a cloth to spread on the table before we play. These decks show their wear... sight.
For divination decks, it is different. My sense of "parenting" the deck is strong ! and I feel responsible for the way the deck is treated, stored etc... So my decks are my decks. I let loved ones use them, but they are still mine.