SunChariot
Cat* said:...For the record: I also believe that your friend broke the guy's trust before he even earned it by telling you what the psychic said. What a foundation for a relationship, no matter how long it might be... Can you imagine the guy asking your friend after several happy months how he decided to try his luck with him in the first place? Can you imagine your friend saying "oh, I was curious to see if you were gay so I asked a psychic"? Would anyone really want to hear that, even if only good things came from it?
These are my thoughts. The foundation of any good relationship, in my understanding, is a good communication and trust. If they prefered to ask a reader instead of trusting the person enough to just ask them, what kind of foundation does that build? If the other person that found out, they could be left feeling that the other preferred to go behind their back to find the info rather than confronting them and asking. How would that feel? That could build some mistrust....It could feel upsetting.
Even if good things came from it...
Babs