juliekate said:
I'm having trouble with the hanged man as the advice card (best path to follow). It seems very similar to the wheel card to me in this specific respect, ie. don't do anything, just hang about in limbo while the world re-orders itself.
Actually no. The Wheel is about the world changing and you going along with that change, as if you're riding a ferris wheel and you go up and down as it goes up and down.
But in many cases, the Hanged Man is a willing sacrifice. That means he chooses to go into limbo as a way of seeing the world different, or, if in limbo already, he makes some sort of sacrifice to come out of it. There is action that can, that MUST be taken by the Hanged Man either to enter into this unique state or come out of it. A change in the world around him isn't going to do any good. He hangs until he changes
himself
Remember, the Hanged Man more or less represents all those stories of some holy man who goes without food and sleep, or suffers in the sweat lodge or takes hallucinogenic drugs or heads out into the desert for however many days in order to gain some spiritual or psychic answer to an important question. Usually, that question is not a selfish or self-centered one. It's not "How do I find wealth and happiness" but "How do I save my tribe?" or "What magical secrets must I know to heal the sick," or just "How do I get closer to God?"
Far from doing nothing and waiting for the world to change, you must do something very, very difficult. The best path to follow is one that is unselfish and for a greater or more spiritual good--to improve yourself for a higher purpose. And the best path is one of true sacrifice--it need not be a big sacrifice, but it has to mean something, and it has to lead to you feeling differently, seeing things differently. You think that both the Wheel and Hanged man are about being out of control and you're right, but the Hanged Man involves surrendering control, it involves saying to the universe, "I give you leave to take me where I need to go. I surrender control in order to see what I can't see if I remain in control."
Great spiritual transformations and great spiritual power are only gained by sacrifice and surrender.