I agree with Thirteen. Lovers card is asking you: do you really want this? OR what do you really want? Is this the right thing for you?
I had a perfect example of this when I did my reading for my Spanish class. I struggle financially, so I was asking if I can afford it - but as final advice or insight I got Lovers which was pointing exactly towards this question: do you really want to do spanish? I understood clearly from the spread that it wasn't about the money it was about me deciding if I really wanted to go for it.
And something funny happened. A lot of people say that majors in tarot are about forces which are bigger than us, things that are out of our hands and we cannot control them.
Well, I couldn't decide what to do with my Spanish course, I was still afraid how it might turn out financially, I was wondering if I really want to struggle so much with money to be able to afford it. But life pushed me in the right direction and somehow decided for me
The thing is that I am also a teacher, I teach French and I was taking Spanish classes at the same school where I teach. So, the fee for my Spanish course is covered from my own pay which I get for working for them. But this semester we weren't sure if I would get any French classes to teach because there were not so many people inscribed, so I wasn't sure whether I will be able to compensate for my Spanish class. It is very difficult for me to pay for the course on my own, it would be a big struggle.
So, I did the reading about whether I can afford my Spanish course and as final insight there was Lovers card. As I said before, I immediately understood that it was about me deciding whether I really want it. Do I want it enough to struggle financially if I don't get my French classes out of which my fee would be covered? I couldn't decide, so life decided for me
I got one class of French, a small one, the fee will not be big, but my boss told me herself that we will find a way to cover for my Spanish, to just go ahead and join the Spanish class.
I was very happy! It was definietely the right choice for me...I couldn't decide, so things happened just on their own. Life made the decision for me and it was the right one because I feel fulfilled. Something would be missing without Spanish, but my mind was very preoccupied with money. But basically the message of Lovers was: if this is the right thing for you, go for it, it will happen.
So, this card is not even close necessarily about relationships.Or, yes, it is about relationships but not necessarily about romantic relationships. It is, as Thirteen said, about relationship with anything that fulfills you, completes you - as my taking Spanish fulfills me, I enjoy it, I LOVE it