mysticmonkey
Funny you should say that. I was thinking the exact same thing yesterday when I was taking a wander through the reading circle forum.gregory said:sometimes I think people can be TOO polite, in case they offend another member. That doesn't help us learn.
It is a hard thing to give feedback on in a way because people might just not being seeing the reading as applying to them right now because they have their mind set on one particular point of view but in time it could all make sense.
On the other hand as you say the reader could completely miss the point but the querent will never say as they want to encourage the newbie and most people here by their nature are sensitive people who empathise with others easily and don't want to upset anyone.
You see it quite often here just in normal conversational posts people apologising for this and that statement made and I've had to go back and find what they are talking about because it didn't make me bat an eyelid.
Maybe the reader should be more specific on the type of feedback that they are looking for?
What things you are currently trying to work on and how honest a feedback you can take. Of course no one wants rude feedback but even politely given feedback can be taken the wrong way sometimes.
If you know you are going to take an honest crit almost as a personal slight (we've all done that at some point in our lives, admit it ) then perhaps it would be better to ask for a gentle crit.