Most of my readings are for myself, and I think they're my best readings. It's my favorite use of Tarot. But I mostly read for insight.
schmedrake said:
I think it has to do with the fact that you color your readings with your own hopes, fears, and knowledge of the situation. In a way, you out-think your intuition... or listen with biased ears.
It's my belief that reading for yourself improves when you're seeking insight, as opposed to some answer you want to hear. It takes practice and being honest with yourself and your personal truth.
I've been reading for a long time and the things I consult the cards about have changed over the years. I'm not looking for "answers" anymore. I'm looking for insight. And I generally don't ask for insight into things I feel desperate to know the answers to. There's a subtle difference between insight and answers, but in that difference is the answer to your question, I think.
This just about says everything I would.
I do sometimes do predictive readings for myself that are accurate, but only about things I'm not emotionally tied in knots over, and usually short term future, not long term. Will I get that package today? When will my car be ready at the shop? That sort of thing.
But most of what I do for myself is to gain insight. Why am I so unable to focus today? etc. What's behind this down mood of mine? Am I feeling grief I'm not aware of? In other words, getting in touch with my unconscious, which seems to store things up as I go through life and don't bother to stop and process my feelings about things.
I don't ever read for myself for anything but insight if I'm anxious, angry, hurt, sad, stressed, worried, or even elated about something. Those are "noisy" emotional situations, and forget being able to be intuitive about outcomes if that's where my head is. I'm better off taking a walk or doing housework than trying to read for myself then. Or maybe just having a good cry -- after which I may be calm enough to read for myself or at least meditate on the situation.
It's natural to be anxious about certain outcomes and wish we knew the future, but the reason we're anxious is usually the
same reason we're not going to get a good read on the future. You know, intuitively, that things are still up in the air. That's why you're anxious. Someone hasn't made up their mind, or the dice haven't yet fallen on the matter. Or the answer is out there and you just don't want to see it. It's out of your control. Your reading of the cards is under your control, so you "fix" it to go your way.
Frankly I even think getting a reading from someone else isn't very predictive in that case -- at least it hasn't ever been for me, even though they might tell me exactly what I want to hear and that might help me be less anxious. But when I get the real-life answer, my stress level will likely shoot up and I'll want to argue with the outcome. "But the cards said . . ."
Just my opinion and what I recall of my experiences.
The most common reading I do for myself, nearly every day, is:
What do I most need to know right now?
It's usually informative, insightful, predictive, and accurate. There's no desired outcome in the way. I just read the cards. It's the best reading I do.
Nevada