Blue Override said:
Who wants to get married when she could party with the Magician?
All I'm sayin'. . .
LOL! Blue Override and Diviner Guy have it right, especially if your Magician is pure trickster. On the other hand, I'm married to a Magician--happily and successfully. If they're a little more conscientious, they can be faithful and even thoughtful.
The real question here, however, is not whether he'd be a good husband, but whether he's the kind of husband you want. To be his wife, you have to want/accept certain things:
1) You have to love seeing him in the spotlight--because that's where he'll be. Always. There's no stopping him from being the center of attention at parties. So you have a choice, be his partner in the spotlight (Queen of Wands), or be his partner behind the scenes helping him to secretly work the tricks (High Priestess).
On the plus side, when you're alone together, he'll always entertain you.
2) You have to love hearing him talk. He'll dominate the conversation. It's not that he won't let you talk, but you have to be happy being the back-up singer at dinners and gatherings.
On the plus side, he'll always win arguments for you. And convince people to do things for you--the Magician always gets star treatment at restaurants, always gets free drinks from bartenders.
3) You can't be threatened by his flirtations--and he is going to flirt. He'll charm, woo, and befriend other women. But I don't think the Magician is always the kind of guy Diviner Guy describes--he can be faithful if you're his real partner, the one he relies on. But he's still going to have women sighing over him, coming back stage to see him, and try to seduce him. Pointless to get worked up about it.
4) You have to like tricks, surprises, even chaos. This is not a man who's going to be home at 6:00 for dinner ever night, or even go to sleep when you do. He won't have a regular job, won't punch a time clock. He likes variety and surprises, not rigid order. There's no telling who or what he may bring home, what he's got planned. Life with the Magician is sometimes stressful, no question.
On the plus side, this
is the man who WILL suprise you with a dozen roses or a trip to Paris--and its not even your birthday.
He is clever, he is magical--the most absurd, fortunate, synchronistic things happen to him. He's never dull--but do you want that? All the time? Most women don't--and as Blue Override points out are happier partying with him for a night then letting him go. But then, if he does ask you to marry him--how are you going to refuse?