Advice on what's the right thing to do.

[Apollonia]

This sounds like you and your daughter need protection for real, so I wouldn't mess around with trying magickal spells that you aren't familiar with. Hoodoo (rootwork) tends to work well for this type of thing, and burning a candle is easy. Here are some ideas for what you might do:

Personally I would set a Fiery Wall of Protection candle or use some other type of FWoP product:
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-fiery-wall.html

Or better still, I would pay to have one set up by Missionary Independent Spiritual Church, because they are really good at it:
http://www.missionaryindependent.org/candle-services-are-tangible-goods.html

Or get a Rootworker to do some protection magick on your behalf:
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wi...Rootworkers_Who_Perform_This_Work_for_Clients


Blessings to you, your daughter, and her daughter.

 

[DDwarks]

It's a harsh situation, I feel sorry for you...
Honestly and because she uses hard drugs and alcohol I don't see how things could evolve positively..., it would be like to try to reason with an insane person.
Or there will be a drama (including overdose for example) and the cops will have to intervene, or things will continue with more or less inconvenience and verbal violence for you and your daughter.

Because she doesn't plan to move out (probably) and that to move out on your side isn't acceptable, the only way is probably to hope for some appeasement...
Are the cards encouraging with regard to the future with her?

Nope! My cards are adamant she's not going to shut up! It's the cocaine that!
I did get the better of her for a few days after my recording lie which showed at the 10 of Swords on my cards but she's back for more. She's just determine to exterminate me. I'm actually giggling to myself about the extermination bit but sadly it's true.
My daughter has been *very* agitated today and that's *really* getting me down.

 

[Tanga]

Ahh yes. Spellwork.
Tread carefully, particularly as you are upset and under fire.
What a horrendous situation to be in.


I would do protection spells - for yourself. Maybe sealing your home at windows and doors
with white light against harmful influence, or all the way round the walls if you prefer
"May the larks of heaven and the angels of the deep, enclose and protect us from all harm"
(with crystals, or symbols traced on the wall in holy water, or drawn imaginarily, even an essential oil combination of your choosing which represents protection to you could be used - whatever your tradition.
Crystals could be hung from the ceiling in the corners, if you want them out of reach.
I'm thinking of Rose Quartz and Obsidian. Rose to soften the environment of aggression, and Obsidian to
reflect back, or absorb and transmute unwanted energy).

I personally might draw banishing pentagrams..."With this pentagram I lay, protection here both night and day..."
- or design a sigil that represents protection and use that - i.e effectively making myself a talisman.
You could call on guides, spirits or angels - if you have and believe in them, or specific Deities - to seal your house in a protective shield.


Interestingly what comes to mind just now - is a mantra:
1) "Sa Sekhem, So Hu" - "Sekhmet inspire and protect me" (envision a protective Egyptian
Key of Life/Ankh sinking in to fortify your aura as you chant this).
Sekhmet is powerful Lady (or idea) - she destroyed and drank the blood of men, and then was transformed into Hathor - Goddes of love.
Destroyer of rebellion, protector of Balance, and as Hathor, pure love. Her duality is beauty itself - and to me, speaks of walking such a line in balance.
But that's just me! (Can't help thinking of those large black statues of Sekhmet in the British Museum - I love those.).

*Neo-Pagan tradition.


I'd visualise strengthening your aura into an amazingly strong mirror that bounces back any harm she intends you. And see a safety bubble for both your daughter, and her son.
You could visualise her happily moving away from your sphere of influence - say walking over the hill into the sunset, whilst you wave goodbye.
(I and a friend of mine did this once towards a lady who was being extremely antagonising towards her. Some-time later... this lady was deported. Wasn't quite expecting that!).



I hope that the situation resolves at some point for you.

 

[Mi-Shell]

3 years ago one of my students had a similar problem with verbally and otherwise abusive drug addicts living and dealing next door. She/ we first tried similar tactics as you = alerting Child's Services and the police and other authorities, which were well informed of the goings-on but short of hard evidence. Then my student contacted the local media and put it on her FB sits - (since taken down). THAT forced the hand of the authorities and the children were taken out of the situation first and then the parents were arrested for dealing drugs and stuck into jail/ rehab.

 

[gregory]

I don't think I'd try that in the England we have become, where there is already a racial component from the neighbours already, I really wouldn't. Backlash and then some. Anyone of non white as white appearance gets it in the neck just now.

 

[prudence]

This sounds like you and your daughter need protection for real, so I wouldn't mess around with trying magickal spells that you aren't familiar with. Hoodoo (rootwork) tends to work well for this type of thing, and burning a candle is easy. Here are some ideas for what you might do:

Personally I would set a Fiery Wall of Protection candle or use some other type of FWoP product:
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-fiery-wall.html

Or better still, I would pay to have one set up by Missionary Independent Spiritual Church, because they are really good at it:
http://www.missionaryindependent.org/candle-services-are-tangible-goods.html

Or get a Rootworker to do some protection magick on your behalf:
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wi...Rootworkers_Who_Perform_This_Work_for_Clients


Blessings to you, your daughter, and her daughter.

I was about to post that DDWarks look into Fiery Wall of Protection spells. I'm glad you did already. I agree about having the Missionary Independent Spiritual Church set some lights, they are very good. During one of my trips to Lucky Mojo, Catherine Yronwode brought me into the church to see all of the spells at work, it was amazing to behold. The folks she has working there take their craft very seriously.

 

[DDwarks]

This sounds like you and your daughter need protection for real, so I wouldn't mess around with trying magickal spells that you aren't familiar with. Hoodoo (rootwork) tends to work well for this type of thing, and burning a candle is easy. Here are some ideas for what you might do:

Personally I would set a Fiery Wall of Protection candle or use some other type of FWoP product:
http://www.luckymojo.com/products-fiery-wall.html

Or better still, I would pay to have one set up by Missionary Independent Spiritual Church, because they are really good at it:
http://www.missionaryindependent.org/candle-services-are-tangible-goods.html

Or get a Rootworker to do some protection magick on your behalf:
http://readersandrootworkers.org/wi...Rootworkers_Who_Perform_This_Work_for_Clients


Blessings to you, your daughter, and her daughter.

I've looked into links (thank you very much!). I already knew lucky mojo but had no idea about the other ones. I like the idea of having someone I can trust doing for me! Especially since I feel so angry! xx

 

[DDwarks]

Ahh yes. Spellwork.
Tread carefully, particularly as you are upset and under fire.
What a horrendous situation to be in.


I would do protection spells - for yourself. Maybe sealing your home at windows and doors
with white light against harmful influence, or all the way round the walls if you prefer
"May the larks of heaven and the angels of the deep, enclose and protect us from all harm"
(with crystals, or symbols traced on the wall in holy water, or drawn imaginarily, even an essential oil combination of your choosing which represents protection to you could be used - whatever your tradition.
Crystals could be hung from the ceiling in the corners, if you want them out of reach.
I'm thinking of Rose Quartz and Obsidian. Rose to soften the environment of aggression, and Obsidian to
reflect back, or absorb and transmute unwanted energy).

I personally might draw banishing pentagrams..."With this pentagram I lay, protection here both night and day..."
- or design a sigil that represents protection and use that - i.e effectively making myself a talisman.
You could call on guides, spirits or angels - if you have and believe in them, or specific Deities - to seal your house in a protective shield.


Interestingly what comes to mind just now - is a mantra:
1) "Sa Sekhem, So Hu" - "Sekhmet inspire and protect me" (envision a protective Egyptian
Key of Life/Ankh sinking in to fortify your aura as you chant this).
Sekhmet is powerful Lady (or idea) - she destroyed and drank the blood of men, and then was transformed into Hathor - Goddes of love.
Destroyer of rebellion, protector of Balance, and as Hathor, pure love. Her duality is beauty itself - and to me, speaks of walking such a line in balance.
But that's just me! (Can't help thinking of those large black statues of Sekhmet in the British Museum - I love those.).

*Neo-Pagan tradition.


I'd visualise strengthening your aura into an amazingly strong mirror that bounces back any harm she intends you. And see a safety bubble for both your daughter, and her son.
You could visualise her happily moving away from your sphere of influence - say walking over the hill into the sunset, whilst you wave goodbye.
(I and a friend of mine did this once towards a lady who was being extremely antagonising towards her. Some-time later... this lady was deported. Wasn't quite expecting that!).



I hope that the situation resolves at some point for you.

Thank you Tanga,
My home I thought was protected already as well as my front door, which actually could explain why she ended up backing away the other day!
I do a lot of white light meditation and include my daughter and my dog. I've noticed the my sleep being very affected along with "clumsiness" so I'm wondering about psychic attacks. That bit I'm not too concerned about.
I tried your meditation earlier but the waving to her and her going over the hill turned into her falling into Mordor! That would be quite a deportation!
I have got to calm myself down!
The mantra I'm going to look into. I like mantras and I've always found them helpful in the past. I have a good feeling about this one!
Thank you very much x

 

[DDwarks]

3 years ago one of my students had a similar problem with verbally and otherwise abusive drug addicts living and dealing next door. She/ we first tried similar tactics as you = alerting Child's Services and the police and other authorities, which were well informed of the goings-on but short of hard evidence. Then my student contacted the local media and put it on her FB sits - (since taken down). THAT forced the hand of the authorities and the children were taken out of the situation first and then the parents were arrested for dealing drugs and stuck into jail/ rehab.

They'll be burning crosses on my front lawn if I do this!
I'm not on Facebook anyway but I do know that everyone around here is a facebook friend of hers so I can't go there x

 

[DDwarks]

I don't think I'd try that in the England we have become, where there is already a racial component from the neighbours already, I really wouldn't. Backlash and then some. Anyone of non white as white appearance gets it in the neck just now.

I agree. Things have changed dramatically. It's like being back in the 70's.