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Originally Posted by delinfrey
I ask for gender when I do e-mail relationship readings for practicalities: when I write several pages, it is easier to use he or she instead of "querent" and" partner" constantly (or he/she). So it is only for literary quality  |
Exactly agree but I also find it helps the flow the reading.
No doubt that females can exhibit male qualities and vice versa. I don't think any intelligent person would question that but to think its as simple as that and its all a grey area and that gender doesn't matter, is simplistic rubbish to me.
And to be accused of being nosey for asking the fact or being accused of assuming something is a dating site because someone wants clarity around gender is one of the most hilarious and ridiculous (and insulting) things I've ever read here.
