spinnachie
I had 2 dreams in one night about a certain person that really rubs me the wrong way. Before I get into the dream I will give you some detail about the situation so that I can have some help with this
My boyfriend has this friend, we will call her "X". Apparently years before he and I ever got together, he and X were going to hook up, however that never happened because she decided she didn't want to ruin the friendship (this was also after she had already dated 2 guys in their circle of friends). So they remained friends, and were quite close, they would talk everyday and hang out a few times a week...now my boyfriend and I have been together for a year...and we now live together, since he and i started dating, I have met this girl twice, once last march, and once last saturday, boyfriend has maybe seen her for coffee 2 other seperate occasions. Now, I trust my bf completley...I know he really loves me however...for some reason I really cant stand X...and as much as I would never tell my bf i don't want him to hang out with her or talk to her anymore because I do realize that my reasons for disliking her so much are most likely related to the fact that they almost had a "thing"...it still dosn't stop me from feeling the way I feel about her.
Now, i want to note that bf is free to hang out with whom ever he wishes, i have never told him how i feel about X because they are friends and I realize that my issue with X is just that, my issue, not his.
both dreams occured in the same night.
The 1st Dream: X's brother, we will call him "F", was talking to bf, and he asked him "how come you and my sister never worked out...and bf said he dosn't know but it dosn't matter anyway because he now has me and that was said in a very loving tone...
The 2nd Dream: X was over at our place, (for what it's worth she has never been to our place as Ive stated above we havent seen much of her, and also i will not allow her in our apt, bf dosn't know that because he's never talked about inviting her so i never brought it up) bf was not home so it was just me and her, for some reason in my dream there was a television on a rather tall dresser just outside the bathroom, X wanted to watch some tv and that was the tv she chose to watch. I didn't like that she chose that tv, for some reason I felt disrespected...and I told her not to watch it, she said "too bad this is the one i want to watch"...so I got extremely angry, I yelled at her and told her as long as shes in my house she will obey my rules and if she dosn't like them to get the eff out...(in the dream I used the actual word) she was taking her time leaving, and bf came home...no more words were exchanged until just before she left she said "ill call you when im home so you know i got home ok" i knew she wasn't talking to me because she dosnt have my phone number, in real life and in the dream...so i had assumed she was talking to bf, that angered me still but she left and we didnt hear from her...it was the following day, in the evening i received a call from a number i didn't recognize, in real life i never pick up those numbers, but in dream world i answered, it was X, and she said "hi i just wanted to let you know i got home ok, thanks, bye!" which struck me as odd because as ive said she didn't have my number and i told bf when i got home from wherever i was, which he thought was odd as well...
So for me I feel the first dream may just be re-affirming bf's feelings towards me...but the second dream...i don't even know where to begin...if anyone would be so kind to help out...i would greatly appreciate it!!
spin
My boyfriend has this friend, we will call her "X". Apparently years before he and I ever got together, he and X were going to hook up, however that never happened because she decided she didn't want to ruin the friendship (this was also after she had already dated 2 guys in their circle of friends). So they remained friends, and were quite close, they would talk everyday and hang out a few times a week...now my boyfriend and I have been together for a year...and we now live together, since he and i started dating, I have met this girl twice, once last march, and once last saturday, boyfriend has maybe seen her for coffee 2 other seperate occasions. Now, I trust my bf completley...I know he really loves me however...for some reason I really cant stand X...and as much as I would never tell my bf i don't want him to hang out with her or talk to her anymore because I do realize that my reasons for disliking her so much are most likely related to the fact that they almost had a "thing"...it still dosn't stop me from feeling the way I feel about her.
Now, i want to note that bf is free to hang out with whom ever he wishes, i have never told him how i feel about X because they are friends and I realize that my issue with X is just that, my issue, not his.
both dreams occured in the same night.
The 1st Dream: X's brother, we will call him "F", was talking to bf, and he asked him "how come you and my sister never worked out...and bf said he dosn't know but it dosn't matter anyway because he now has me and that was said in a very loving tone...
The 2nd Dream: X was over at our place, (for what it's worth she has never been to our place as Ive stated above we havent seen much of her, and also i will not allow her in our apt, bf dosn't know that because he's never talked about inviting her so i never brought it up) bf was not home so it was just me and her, for some reason in my dream there was a television on a rather tall dresser just outside the bathroom, X wanted to watch some tv and that was the tv she chose to watch. I didn't like that she chose that tv, for some reason I felt disrespected...and I told her not to watch it, she said "too bad this is the one i want to watch"...so I got extremely angry, I yelled at her and told her as long as shes in my house she will obey my rules and if she dosn't like them to get the eff out...(in the dream I used the actual word) she was taking her time leaving, and bf came home...no more words were exchanged until just before she left she said "ill call you when im home so you know i got home ok" i knew she wasn't talking to me because she dosnt have my phone number, in real life and in the dream...so i had assumed she was talking to bf, that angered me still but she left and we didnt hear from her...it was the following day, in the evening i received a call from a number i didn't recognize, in real life i never pick up those numbers, but in dream world i answered, it was X, and she said "hi i just wanted to let you know i got home ok, thanks, bye!" which struck me as odd because as ive said she didn't have my number and i told bf when i got home from wherever i was, which he thought was odd as well...
So for me I feel the first dream may just be re-affirming bf's feelings towards me...but the second dream...i don't even know where to begin...if anyone would be so kind to help out...i would greatly appreciate it!!
spin