ChairmanMeow
Here's the background: A friend of mine loves a guy, They are friends, there is an attraction and they do flirt. He has been through a painful divorce (3yrs ago) and is conflicted on different matters regarding their relationship. communication can be sporadic, on a few weeks, and then nothing, and then back on. She loves him, but is not sure if it's worth hanging on. The sporadic communication confuses her. He's gemini if that matters. She has tried to be patient and see things from his perspective of hurt.
She asked the question, How will X react if I cut communication with him? (essentially, will he care or not). I did a one card pull and received Death. I know Death is about big changes, and transformations. I read this as her cutting him off would cause some large change him, but wasn't sure if the change would be a positive or negative one for my friend, so I pulled a clarifier which was Lovers. So now I'm really confused. Is the transformation a realization of his feelings for her (love) which may change his behaviors. Or is it that the transformation is it's over. However, if there was never a romantic relationship (other than flirting and attraction), where do the lovers come in??
Wouldn't 3 of cups a be better card if their relationship is only as friends?
Would appreciate any insight!
THanks!!!!
She asked the question, How will X react if I cut communication with him? (essentially, will he care or not). I did a one card pull and received Death. I know Death is about big changes, and transformations. I read this as her cutting him off would cause some large change him, but wasn't sure if the change would be a positive or negative one for my friend, so I pulled a clarifier which was Lovers. So now I'm really confused. Is the transformation a realization of his feelings for her (love) which may change his behaviors. Or is it that the transformation is it's over. However, if there was never a romantic relationship (other than flirting and attraction), where do the lovers come in??
Wouldn't 3 of cups a be better card if their relationship is only as friends?
Would appreciate any insight!
THanks!!!!