Vanny
nisaba said:I've gone the other way, to my cost. I've made a life-decision without taking notice because the ONLY warning I had ahead of time was a Tarot warning, and I paid for ignoring that warning very dearly indeed.
Prior to starting a relationship, when I already had the target identified, I did a reading for likely outcomes of the relationship.
She had already told me she lived an an unsalubrious block of flats, with a local hard-man in one flat who was fresh out of gaol for having permanently and totally disabled someone in an assault with a weapon, and a drug dealer-cum-fence upstairs whose customers were always trying to break in to flats as they arrived and/or left.
The Seven Swords came out in the reading, in cards indicating what she brought to the relationship (there were cards for what I brought, shat she brought, and the connection between us). I immediately thought: lies, theft, dishonesty, perhaps violence.
I chose to go into the relationship anyway. My justification was: a) you shouldn't make decisions based only on Tarot, and b) the card was probably referring to the people around her.
And so it looked, in the beginning. Addiction even to legal stuff being what it is, though, after a few years there was theft from me (and my young child's piggy-bank!), violence and lies towards me from her, and even being effectively kept under house-arrest for years on end.
My deck knew. I just bloody wish I'd taken notice and run away very, very fast.
Now I *never* ignore Tarot warnings. You do so at your own risk.
I had a similar experience to yours. I had gone to a Tarot reader and these were her exact words when she talked about the guy I was in a relationship with. "He's not going to marry you." I remember being pretty upset. Well, fast forward to a couple months later he and I moved in together and everything was going great. I even thought that she had been so wrong and way off. Then everything went downhill. He ended up moving out and he ended up disappearing on me for 7 months!
I think I will pay way more attention to the Tarot's message from now on.