Jade and Purplelady I hope you're right in ways and not in others. I've had many dreams of my boyfriend since his passing, some are wonderful...Some I don't understand or they upset me and I post.
The first dream I had after his passing was so real, so wonderful...I didn't want to wake. I was then semi conscious and woke telling myself I was being dillusional, that it'd never be that way again. I wish I could recall the one I woke with this morning, I woke thinking it was wonderful, but just felt it, couldn't recall it.
I have dreams then later in life, be it weeks, months, or years, they occure. When they occure and I recall if they end badly, then I "change" it. For example, if I have a dream of arguing with someone, and recognize I dreamed it while the discussion is happening and know in my dream it ended in a fight, then I do not say what I said in the dream to eleviate it coming to that.
In love and light,
Kismet