Exchange of energy
Anyway, secondly, I'm still lost about the victory part, is she winning right now? And winning over what? Difficulties, burden that she carried, or him, making he realized that he should have cared about her more?
You got the 6/Wands in two different readings, in the same position. That makes it a repeat card. [tarot lesson]Repeat cards often are message to *you* rather than answers to the question you asked.[/tarot lesson]
It's like the deck is saying, "here's the answer in the other cards, but THIS one is for you, Reader. Listen up."
So you know the past/future of the person you read for in both readings. Those were the ones that mattered in answering that person's question. The present did not. Which is why the deck could use that position to send you its message. 6/Wands. It coming up twice is, after all, is why you're asking about it, right? If it was that you just didn't understand it in the first reading...why did it's reappearance (in the same position) in the second grab your attention?
It did. Ergo...it was for you.
6/Wands isn't simply "victory." 6's are balance. There is give and take in all of them. And Wands are energy. So the man on the horse is giving "victory" to the people. But the people, in turn, are cheering him, which makes him feel victorious. It's an exchange of energy, like a rock star and his fans. He sings, they get energized, they cheer, and he gets energized and sings some more. Yes?
And what are you doing right now? Readings. I'll let you reach your own conclusion as to how the 6/Wands might relate to becoming a reader. But short and sweet, I think the cards are encouraging you with a "good job."