BlueLeaf - I loved what you wrote - relationship & tarot counselling all in one, very good!!!
I daresay if there was only one deck available, or only a limited choice, I would get along very well with that one. It would be a happy arranged marriage
But as things are, I think there are several possible "ones" in my life. I've only been doing tarot for 8 years, so it's too soon to tell, but on average, I would say I work with 2-3 decks at a time, though I might expand or contract with circumstance.
During my 5 years in the field, I worked with The Mythic Deck, which was my Chosen One, and the Robin Wood, which was an Arranged Match, but I got to know and be comfortable with both, and it was nice to get another point of view on a similar question (that's a cute way of putting I'd read twice to find out the same thing
).
Now I work with other decks. I rarely return to the Robin Wood, but when I do, it feels like a comfy pair of slippers. But I still get the old flutter with the Mythic. I guess I always will...I still find things in that gawky, deceptively simple deck that I had not before. It is full of drama, comedy, and the echoes of Greece, the nation of my heart.
And yet...
I have other great loves. The Tarot of Prague was the first deck I bought when I came back from the field, and it was love at first sight. I love reading with it.
A year or so ago, I was introduced to the Tarot of Marseille by Diana (who else?) and it opened a world I hardly knew existed. Another One.
Then a few months ago, I picked up my first deck, which I had stopped reading with some years back (the Rider-Waite), because I was writing a book on a deck based primarily on it, and wah-boom, I realised what a great artefact & instrument of divination & dreaming it was!
Six months ago, I returned to another abandoned classic - the Thoth. More because people I liked on this forum raved about it (you know who you are!!). It was a timid approach at first. I have the large pack & it takes up a lot of room, though I love to see the details so large. But then I found the pocket Thoth - and had another coup de foudre! At last, a Thoth I can set up next to me on the breakfast table, without feeling I need to clear up the whole space, or bow down to it. I've had some a-ha moments with it, including a big one yesterday. Will our relationship last? Eh, who knows? It's great while it lasts
And then there are all the others that captured my imagination & made my reading juices flow or gave me a thrill & strong meditative experiences, each in their own way. The Alchemical, the Röhrig, the Tarot de la Réa, the DruidCraft, the Secret Forest, the Baroque Bohemian Cats, the Ironwing, the New Orleans Voodoo, the Gothic Vampires, the Lunatic Tarot, ...
Bah, I am a Mediterranean. One is too few for me - we must be seduced & seduce all the time, though we are passionate & romantic & very faithful for as long as the honeymoon lasts...
PS - I voted for the arranged marriage, because there is a perversely sensible streak in me...