NikkiB
I'm round to haley and Nikki.
Nikki
Same issue for you - timescale
Plus -
(i) Are you still troubled by depression (the 'you' includes him and yourself)?
(ii) Is your lifestyle and work employment still the same.
The obvious reason for asking is that if the chart is mildly in favour of a reconciliation it probably won't come off, if nothing has changed. I'd want a very strong indication in that case. On the other hand if things have changed and are now easier, I'd have a weaker test of overcoming the default situation (which is 'no change')..
Hi sorry just seen this
Timescale - within 12 months is fine by me thanks
Depression: No I have had a great deal of therapy and have addressed my issues - I am a different person now - for the better... I'd say he is also in a better place - overworked and scared that i havent really changed so for him I would believe that fear that im going to be the same is an issue
Yes the lifestyle and employment are the same in essence although I have taken control of the situation to put in boundaries, so I have time off! and there is a flat in london my boss has taken on which i can use anytime which would be easy for K so we could share the travelling in a way we couldnt before - I am also totally prepared to move back to home (where he is now and where I came from)
Hope that helps thank you for looking at this for me