Diana
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[Quoting Alex, but responding to the whole discussion!]Alex said:Not to talk about people who are negative and unconsciously spin the wheel of their lives such as to fail every time, because they just can't do it otherwise. A trully negative reading may be a function of the person's negative state of mind and paradoxically, exactly the kind of a thing the querent wants to hear even though other interpretations are/would be possible.
I would advise everyone to be very careful with the messages you deliver.
MattDouglas said:I always try to warn people when giving a reading that this is not a session of Matt kissing your ass, and that I'll tell them what I see. However, nonetheless people are hoping for the reassurance, and don't really think you can see anything negative in the cards. I find myself often giving such people a shock.
A few times the cards have shown me that a person was sexually abused. Anyone have any experience dealing with this?
tarotlady_nl said:If the cards are "brutally honest", I will be honest too, although I will try to be a little less "brutal" in delivering the message. I don't think I would help a friend by concealing the negative things the cards are saying.
Jenny-Li said:
\... I do feel strongly about the readers role in relation to the querent, having all that trust and responsibility...
Light and love!
Jenny